• @[email protected]
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    Why, do you need to make yourself feel better about addiction to free porn? ‘At least I am not paying for it like the rest of the losers’.

    Not really judgy just a banter

    • @[email protected]
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      His plan is to vicariously enjoy pornography through us, as an omniscient entity, he cannot otherwise enjoy sex on a guttural level like we can.

      And of course, the vast majority of humans would not enjoy a statically significant amount of sexual if it weren’t for pornography, so that’s why he intervenes to make you seek out varied and rare porn.

      This is basically the only reason why earth isn’t just rocks floating in space.

  • @[email protected]
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    510 hours ago

    Somewhat of a dumb take. There’s nothing free on the internet. So you either pay for it directly or by giving away your data or participating in some form of scheme.

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      68 hours ago

      Also imagine paying a creator of the media that you consume and not a platform which scams an agency which scams the creator.

      How horrible…

      Honestly people are fucking weird. What is wrong with actually supporting the creator?

  • Steal Wool
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    1015 hours ago

    I feel like this is implying that there’s just “free porn” out there “somewhere” on the internet

    • @[email protected]
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      68 hours ago

      lol yeah, what’s next? Are benevolent pixies going to distribute it throughout the forest too?

  • @[email protected]
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    631 day ago

    Yo! I really wish this was not the sentiment. Support the media you consume. Otherwise you don’t know what sort of shady shit is going on.

    • @[email protected]
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      1519 hours ago

      Shady shit happens specifically because there is money to be made. If everyone around the world stopped paying for porn, full stop, then the only porn that would be made would be passion projects from artists who want to create for the sake of it.

      • Too Ren
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        26 hours ago

        i post porn for free but have been paid for it, those are the only times I’ve been uncomfortable

      • Poplar?
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        1818 hours ago

        Doubt it. People would still post revenge porn, unconsensually filmed stuff or leak e.g nudes that were meant for each other and not the public. Because the motivation there is not money, it would be to humiliate, for example.

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        Exploitation takes place when the money isn’t paid directly to the workers. Anyone who cares to consume porn responsibly should consider this before they go to free hosting sites that make money from ad revenue and shady services.

      • @[email protected]
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        Porn is the only reason I am still married. After our second kid, my wife’s already low sex drive dropped to asexual. She is a wonderful mother, but she is either willfully or ignorantly oblivious to any romantic advance. I get, on average, about one fully clothed, under-the-covers hand job every 6 months or so that’s so unenthusiastic that I am reminded why I stopped trying to get her to do it. I am sexually starving. The only thing I want in the world right now is to feel the warm touch of someone who actually wants to touch me again, but I’d rather die, lonely, but married to her than let my kids grow up in a broken home…

        So ya, I jerk off to porn after she goes to bed.

        • @[email protected]
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          720 hours ago

          It’s better to show your kids what is like to be happy and have your needs met than to show them being miserable and setling. Especially on their behalf.

          Which would you rather for your kids?

          Which are you showing your kids by example?

          • @[email protected]
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            Do you have kids? I used to hate when people would ask me that question before I had kids, because it seems to imply that having them places your opinion on a higher tier. Now that I do, I try and avoid it as much as possible for that reason, but I do understand that parenting is one of the theaters where theory space, and optimal practice, can be very different. The fact is, they never have to know, at least until they’re old enough to understand. They don’t have to know that Dad is sad when he’s alone with Mom, because we still have fun and laugh as a family when they are present. The lesson that I’m teaching them by example, is that it is better to have one bedroom than two, then to have to decide whether they want to live with mom or dad most of the time, that even though Mom and Dad civilly argue sometimes, we can still be a family, and be happy most of the time, rather than give up on a promise made before they were born because of factors they can’t possibly understand yet.

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              Yeah. I had a dad that didn’t get laid too. Sex is in the bottom layers of Maslow’s hierarchy of needs, then intimacy is up higher as well. If you’re not getting these things you’re not going to be able to hide them. Your kids won’t know why until they’re much older WHY your not happy, but that is a sadness of the soul that nothing can hide.

              You ever see one of your friends the day after they get laid and you just know. That’s a kind of joy from having your needs met that you can’t fake.

              You’re teaching your kids it’s OK with someone who doesn’t meet your needs. It’s not.

              Be with someone who makes you happy. Let your wife do the same. Show your kids what a happy marriage and happy parents look like so they can model their relationships that way. Don’t continue the cycle.

            • @[email protected]
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              919 hours ago

              How about, “Daddys leaving because he no longer in a loving relationship with mommy.” Divorce isn’t the end of the world.

              • @[email protected]
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                27 hours ago

                Except it seems from the comment that they are still in a loving relationship, just not much of a sexual one.

              • @[email protected]
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                117 hours ago

                For real though, why is everyone heading straight to divorce, instead of talking about how to tap that wife

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                  Cause it’s condescending to explain to a person you don’t know who has been in a serious relationship with a person you dont know for who knows how long that you can tap it if you’re just an extra good boy.

        • @[email protected]
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          217 hours ago

          Damn that sucks! Wouldn’t have believed somebody telling you on your honeymoon that so little intimacy was in your future, huh? No fair :( I hope that, if nothing changes, your coping mechanisms remain effective.

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        My wife hates it when I masterbate to her. She’s always like, ew gross, I’m on a conference call.

        • @[email protected]
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          722 hours ago

          But Jennifer, also on the conference call, is always rooting for me 110%. We should all be more like Jennifer.

  • @[email protected]
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    1824 hours ago

    Those interested: Erika Lust is a fun site. It has more ethical porn that you don’t have to wade through weird crap for. Well worth it IMHO

  • @[email protected]
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    721 hours ago

    I’m really shocked at how many people (apparently) shell out for onlyfans, subscriptions and such.

    I swear, I’m the only sane one, not the only insane one.