I can’t sissygasm. The closest I’ve come with my dildos is a mini dry orgasm that is satisfying enough to feel like I achieved something but never wet, mindblowing, or truly satisfying.
I wish I could sissygasm. Sigh. Perhaps one day a great shag with a well-hung daddy will lead me to sissygasm, and induce a permanent cocklust in me 🔥
I do like fapping though, which to me as a sissy kind of feels like a ‘guilty secret.’ It is by far the easiest way for me to come, and I enjoy the reliable, familiar, and satisfying orgasms it provides.
I speculate that the fact that I’ve only fapped and not had sex or used a penis sleeve for years may have slightly reduced my ability to maintain an erection. I believe that because one’s own hand can almost fully compensate for being semi-hard, and still achieve orgasm, the need/ ability to maintain erection to complete sexual activity may be reduced over long periods due to disuse. However, my thinking might be biased because the thought of this affecting me turns me on a great deal lol
The biggest progress I ever made towards sissygasming happened the moment I stopped putting so much pressure on myself and focusing exclusively on cumming. Going into a toying session expecting and trying to sissygasm just ended up leaving me frustrated because I was focusing so much on cumming I would have trouble just enjoying the feelings. Don’t put so much pressure on yourself and just listen to your body.
At least for me, sissygasming doesn’t have that same explosive climax of an orgasm you get from fapping. In fact, the first time for me I didn’t even realize it was happening, I was just lost in the pleasure of fucking myself. Also for what it’s worth, you don’t actually need to be fully erect to achieve it. So don’t let that fact bother you too much.