I’m a fan of Kaitlyn Katsaros’s work. I can’t post a lot of her stuff here because it’s against the rules. However, I found a video that I think is community compliant. If you see it differently, DM is enough and I’ll delete the post. If you want to watch it, press to play

I’ve always liked watching hardcore porn, films where the woman was intentionally humiliated. Through this type of film, you see a few over time 😈, I have found other inclinations that are exciting for me. For example, choking and hitting. I always associated hitting with spanking or slapping. In her films, however, she has repeatedly received punches in the eye. It was strange for me to see something like that at first. My first instinct was, “Does she really want this?” or “Is that too much?” However, I had the benefit of already knowing the actress and knowing that she was becoming known for taking a harder stance within the hardcore genre.

One of the reasons I learned to appreciate the films is that they always combine dirty, brutal and creative things with a smile. She has a charisma that never conveys that this is against her will. Rather, my mind keeps wandering and thinking about what kind of play instincts there can happen, when there is a common consensus.

I don’t really want to go into too much detail on what Kaitlyn does in her films in the post because some of it is against the community rules, which I’m perfectly fine with.

*I was just wondering if others feel the same way. That through certain actresses they come up with topics that you initially ruled out and then find a completely different approach. *

I don’t know if this is a niche that I only share with myself. 😉 But I think video producers like hobybuchanon, facialabuse and others address a harder pace that you can definitely enjoy if you find the content shown okay for you (no rating!).

I am happy about any kind of feedback. What do you think?

  • VioletM
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    1 year ago

    i used to truly believe that forced gangbangs were abuse. I couldnt imagine someone consenting to that. You must be crazy and therefor cannot consent. Its infantilizing those actrices and others participating. I love to watch forced gangbangs now, my taste has shifted.

    Now i dont enjoy punches to the eye, will probably not watch that. But i do not condemn or judge those who make or watch it either.

    Its not just about which porn is acceptable, because i dont think porn in anyway shaped my sexuality. I had these urges and fantasies since i was a little girl. Those actrices made me feel less alone and crazy for enjoying those acts.

    So yeah, where is the line? I cant answer that either. That rabbithole goes a long way down with alot of questionable people around it. Im interested in how this will be handled on lemmy going forward.

    Edit: i was thinking about which model/actrice did influence my taste and Angell Summers came to mind.

    • Benedick SpredumM
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      11 year ago

      Funny enough, it’s when I started roaming more sexually open circles that I realized it’s truly the woman who tends to have more fun. Granted there’s a difference with a pretty vanilla orgy and some more extreme GBs, but still.

      • El Chango Unchained
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        41 year ago

        I’m a former “bull for hire” and there’s been more than a few instances where I had to pump the brakes because the situation was testing my limits (which were pretty extreme) or I felt that the situation was no longer safe. In all cases it was the woman calling the shots and pushing the limits.

        One woman wanted to be cut deep and fucked while she bled. Nope. I just said that blood was a hard line for me due to disease but the truth was that…just no.

        • Benedick SpredumM
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          11 year ago

          Ha! That’s pretty much my limit as well. Some blood from like whipping I can deal with. But past that it’s too much for me. But I’ve met women who are really into blood play, needle play, etc.

  • El Chango Unchained
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    21 year ago

    She seemed to have a blast in that video, and that’s always fun to watch. Videos where the woman is literally crying and begging for them to stop and let her go home are not fun to watch. True sadism and torture, for me, are something I’d keep off my instance. I just wouldn’t want the burden to have to verify consent on the video.

    • Patriarch 🍆😈OPM
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      31 year ago

      I agree, it is indeed more of a hassle to allow practices in the community that are just on the edge of what is possible in the context. But a place like /c/brutal is one that is also about what can hurt someone. We make every effort to keep the community clean and to ensure their consent to the shoot/situation is verified. That’s why I’m a fan of original sources, among other things, because verification is easier. I think everyone has to define the limit of whats attractive for oneself. My sadistic streak is quite strong. But that doesn’t mean that Ilive out everything that I find appealing myself in thoughts.

  • Benedick SpredumM
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    Surprisingly I had never heard of Kaitlyn Katsaros. Seems like I’ll have to look her up in more depth later! (Pun intended)

    I appreciate this sort of extreme gonzo, and probably did more so in my youth, people the likes of Kelly Wells and Amber Rayne really showed me that it can be ok, but I will acknowledge that they also went through the ringer with some huge ass holes in their journey (looking at you MP).

    My interests now a days are more towards predicaments and horror (even better when combined with the above). These interests were for sure validated and probably steered by people like Lorelei Lee, someone who always showed me that you can be hella smart, independent, tough, and actually want these things.

    Whether it’s wanting them for personal reasons or professional reasons is another question.

    Athletes, musicians, actors, circus artists, and all sorts of performance artists believe in pushing themselves for the gain which would best be described as professional. Their enjoyment and self worth doesn’t come from the act itself, but from the accomplishment. Some enjoy running, but what they are after is finishing/winning the race. And to accomplish that these people often put themselves through various hardships.

    Ultimately I think, for those who really truely find happiness in this work and identity, it’s probably a mixture of both.

    • Patriarch 🍆😈OPM
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      21 year ago

      The porn industry is very fast-moving and I think it’s almost impossible to know all the current popular actors. Most of the time I only know the labels that I like. Usually only the more unusual ones catch my eye. I think that also has something to do with the fact that many in the business are trying to establish their own brand. A while ago I watched the hot girls wanted documentary on Netflix. Among other things, it dealt with how long the average porn actress can stay in the film industry. (Depending on how well, but anything under a year on average). So those we remember always do a lot (or more than others) for it. Voluntarily or involuntarily because they end up with the wrong producers. In any case, it shapes the type of films and the replenishment. As someone who prefers the hard pace in such porn, I find this development attractive in terms of content. But I can’t judge how the actresses feel about it… Thanks for name dropping some interesting porn stars as well.

      • Benedick SpredumM
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        21 year ago

        Yes the fast pace is somewhat disconcerting. Not untrue of other professions though (the majority of athletes have short careers). And is why I try to gravitate towards performers who have been in the industry for a while.

        I suggest you give Graphic Sexual Horror a watch. It’s a documentary about Insex (former Intersec studio), the Free Speech Coalition, and how conservatives and neo-cons tried to shut them down using terrorism laws. Pretty crazy. Lorelei is an integral part of the documentary as some of her material was used in the case.

        https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Graphic_Sexual_Horror

        https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=NnxdHn6JVwY (censored cut)

        • Patriarch 🍆😈OPM
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          21 year ago

          Ok, I checked out both. The censored cut and the insex website. I enjoyed the interviews with Lorelei. I really like the way of introducing this kind of art as > it is not an image of reality, it is an creation and made to shock <. Another interesting aspect is, that it is intended to look as real as possible to increase the shock effect. Precisely because I’m not a professional in this area, I’m glad to have you on the team. Not just because of the knowledge of the studios, borders and productions but of course it helps ;-). The documentation is very interesting for diffrent reasons, but the most interesting part for me was to see how much effort and convition was part of this project and page. I think, especially because gore and nsfl is not allowed on this server by rules, we have to be careful. Not just for paying attention to the rules but also to ensure hosting isnt a problem. I just came across this facet today.