• intensely_human@lemm.ee
    4·
    2 年前

    Left my ex four years ago now and I’ve got a 700 credit score!

    She didn’t fuck up my finances directly, but she undermined my sense of concrete reality and filled me with enormous amounts of stress and I couldn’t do anything but hang on by my fingertips in my career.

    Four years of active healing and it’s finally starting to manifest in my external life.

    • karmanj@lemmy.world
      2·
      2 年前

      Good for you getting your head in a better place.Sometimes what we want the most really is the worse thing for us.

      • intensely_human@lemm.ee
        2·
        2 年前

        It was love at first sight, literally. We didn’t even discuss going out. The first day we met, we were together as a couple. I cannot emphasize enough that we did not discuss being a couple even a single word, but we both knew.

        I ain’t doing love at first sight again. Fuck that.