I’m curious… and slightly horny, I admit it.

Marking this NSFW in case anyone wants to get into more detail about being top / bottom / vers or sub / dom.

I’m pretty gay / male oriented myself. I do like to post good straight yiff I find, but males turn me on much more. I’d also say I’m a switch, depending on the situation, very interested in stuff like petplay, Dom/sub situations.

Anyways 0////0 HBU? Just asking for scientific statistical purposes, of course.

(I might regret posting this hehe. Admin is being horny on main… )

  • bane_killgrind
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    The great thing about this federation thing is that this thread popped up on Kbin’s all feed.

    I’m going to answer anyway:

    Straight CIS white male, also not a furry.

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        I don’t really think about it, but I hear from people that cocks look weird, so I suppose you should imagine the difference is seeing something weird you like and have the impulse to touch, vs seeing something weird that you don’t really care about and don’t have the impulse to touch.

        In terms of social interactions there is a position of privilege I’m in. I have experienced gay coworkers and acquaintances being mistreated. It’s annoying getting along well with someone and they bust out some hot take that shows they are hateful. So I’m not subject to that treatment, and that’s what I mean by privilege. I’ve put stuff in my ass and posted a video on fetlife, so if the conversation topic is bdsm and such I do censor myself depending on the audience.

        My wife is great. We just moved into this housing coop and I’ve been working on little improvements. She’s short so I ordered some low cabinets and countertop so she doesn’t struggle to cook stuff, and seeing how happy it made her is very satisfying. She’s super supportive of my hobbies, has a great sense of humor, and is very loving. I got her into Startrek and she really likes it all.

        • @[email protected]
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          I’m fortunate enough that I’m in New Zealand, being gay (being in a gay relationship) isn’t too much of an issue here, though I can’t say the same for trans, unfortunately for my partner. It’s a real pain with asexuality having basically no one understand, but experiences can differ a lot in that so… just kinda gotta figure it out for yourself.

          On one hand I’ve felt like an outcast much of the time, but on the other hand I like being weird lol, I like what I like, I would never trade for being a “normie” or something.

  • Yote.zip
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    I’m all the way gay Blobfox Bongo Hyper. The furry fandom helped me not hate myself a very long time ago, so I’m very grateful for that.

    According to furscience, furries are >80% queer. Who knows why - we’re just a lucky bunch with a handful of comorbidities I guess.

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      That’s a cool word, “comorbidity”. ^^

      It’s really great that you found some peace about yourself. Hopefully more happy times now

    • Alexmitter
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      The furry fandom helped me not hate myself a very long time ago, so I’m very grateful for that.

      Same here, was a core part on accepting myself. Too bad I do not have the strength to make others accept that too.

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    91 year ago

    I don’t know!

    Whatever I am, I think I have a strong leaning towards women, and I think I could only see myself romantically interested with a woman long term.

    However, with men, it’s… Strange, and I’m wondering how common this is in the community. Basically, I don’t find human men intrinsically attractive, but I do like furry men. Like maybe something in my brain chemistry doesn’t see them as male? I’m not sure. I even ERP through text with a furry guy friend!

    BDSM wise… I do love good bondage, particularly novel and interesting scenarios that get stuck into my head~ I don’t actually mind IRL men in bondage most of the time. In theory I’m a switch, but I think I’ve been leaning more towards sub nowadays, probably due to life stuff.

    Also, !hornychat when. :P

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      Ooh, interesting point about furry guys. I’m a lot pickier about human guys appearance than furry art… ERP is also fun and your mind fills in the gaps with what you want! :3

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      Okay, now I have that idea in my head… Would anyone be interested in a “hornychat” community? Basically, an nsfw community where respectful flirty comments and explicit discussions about interests and kinks live. Hopefully with checks in place to curb the drama caused by such things.

      If this comment gets 5 updoots, I may flesh out the idea beyond inane rambling on a random comment thread and post it in the meta community.

      Also, hello people browsing comments by new.

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          If I do end up making the community, I may make a “don’t pm people unless requested” rule, just because it changes the dynamic from lighthearted public discussion to something personal.

  • 稲荷大神の狐
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    Hmm… I am full bisexual myself. So I find men and women attractive. I do really like Femboys after all. (¬‿¬ )

    If I built up a relationship with someone that Identifies as trans, I wouldn’t rule out the possibility of becoming their SO if they too want it. ( ̄ω ̄)

    I would say I am a switch as well. Topping can be fun, but bottoming is just as much fun. I’ll stop here becaise I am already flustered talking about it. (⁄ ⁄•⁄ω⁄•⁄ ⁄)

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      I feel the same re: trans relationship. If someone built a good friendship with me and wanted to go further, I’d love that to be an option.

      I find switches really interesting. In my head it’s such an opposite mindset… I guess that’s why I’m not switch

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    He/him Asexual (demisexual), dom (occasional switch), male preferred, tho I found my femboy partner (they/her) by chance I’m never letting her go lol. We enjoy Paws, petplay, watersports, and more together, and I enjoy petting my dog (partner) and calling her a good girl uwu

    Also this is yiffit, admin is allowed to be horny on main like everyone else :3

  • @[email protected]
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    Well I would say I’m bi with a male preference. Also I’m a bottom, there’s something about giving myself to a man that I just can’t quite explain. I don’t have much experience with women and due to some past trauma I prefer to not get romantically/sexually involved with them. I’m pretty sure I’m trans mtf but due to my current situation I’m not able to do anything about it. Also my bf is gay so transitioning would mean loosing him and he’s one of the only people who cares about me so fml I guess

    • @talizorah
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      That’s a delicate situation, sorry to hear it. Hopefully you can find some ways to express that feminine side…

  • Alexmitter
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    Male/Gay with a absolutely preference on masculinity. What that means is mainly behavioural, not in Relation to body types but I do not enjoy very thin guys.

  • Noxy
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    61 year ago

    Pawsexual, paws/feet for me all the way.

    Generally speaking, pansexual with a strong male/masc preference

  • @[email protected]
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    61 year ago

    I would say bi-curious but with a strong leaning towards women. The only males I’ve ever found myself attracted to are very feminine femboys. I’m definitely a top and not very submissive at all.

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      As someone with similar tastes, do you happen to know what feminine qualities makes a person attractive to you? Like, what would be missing that would make someone not do it for you?

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        I would say longer hair, smooth body (Shaved legs, face, pubic area, etc), A more “feminine” body type (not muscular, nicely shaped butt, etc). I’m very very picky lol.

  • @talizorah
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    Despite the name, I am currently male. I’m queer in some sort of way… My introduction to that being a common thing was, maybe in surprisingly, the furry/yiff community.

    Had one sexual relationship with a girl that was super short lived, but it was because she desperately wanted me to be a dom. I am not good at being in control, which didn’t make for good times… I’d be better in a role reversal relationship, or as a more subby type top. Not really sure I’d be a good bottom (though I’ve got the butt for it, lmao).

    Maybe I find someone who’s a good match for me here soon.

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    Gay male, and I guess I’m a switch (although bottom 80% of the time).

    BDSM is huge for me. Being in bondage makes me instantly horny x3

    Oh and paws of course.

  • @[email protected]
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    Subby gay cis-male. I do have occasional straight fantasies, but it’s really not practical to consider myself anything but gay. I’m also very into dom/sub situations, as you put it.

    Like many of you, I like paws.

    also vore

  • @[email protected]
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    Transfemme pan myself although I am an extremely submissive bottom and love penetration a bit too much so sexually not every body type works equally well for me (luckily strap-ons exist~)

    I’m just a toy basically and I like it that way :3 Rough is fun, I quite like being held down and all as long as it stays very clearly consensual. No cnc for me please!

    I’m still trying to find the perfect community for me so suggestions welcome :3

  • @[email protected]
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    31 year ago

    Smashed my keyboard and lost my post , oops

    If you’re gonna make a community named yiffit and post furry porn you’re gonna get embarassed over one horny post?? You didn’t just horny post, you made a whole horny forum! That’s like saying you’re not interested in lewd and then you start a gentlefox’s club

    I’m bi or pan or whatever, idk, I just accept everyone but I am mostly attracted to people I like. However, for longer term relationships I prefer guys, other women I get the brain bug and go absolutely insane if the relationship is too serious.

    I was really into rough stuff though I sometimes have trouble being a sub because I have way too much self-determination and can get annoyed when people order me around, and my suspension of disbelief always sucks. I can also like really intimate romantic stuff but I suppose everyone does. I mainly really liked to roleplay and I am very experimental since I like to fulfill my partner’s interests, and I know how to set boundaries so I don’t get forced into something I really know or find out I’m not into or makes me uncomfortable. Doesn’t happen a whole lot though, and most of my interests have been gained over the years by partners I had that introduced me to this or that. Text roleplay and writing I especially have always liked, and as you can see, I type too much but I just ~~really love to write. I already had to cut this post down a lot because I realized I was way ~~ too descriptive in some things. Lots of useless words and phrases I edit down after the fact! I showed what I would normally remove in this paragraph. But damn if I can’t write a good sex scene without being too repetitive

    Nowadays I feel really vanilla though.

    The problem is that since I like guys everyone (<-- hyperbole) in the furry community is gay so I literally can’t find anyone to hit on!! I have a 90% chance of getting shut down right away!! I blame all of you for this