I’m sure you’ll have some fun soon enough. Now that you have furniture, it’s a lot more fun to have guests over ;-) tl;dr: had great sex for the first time in a while, one as top, one as bottom. sorry this ended up being a really long post.

On my side, this week was more about quality vs. quantity. I had 2 flakes which was annoying, but what can you do, it happens.

• Friday evening I finally met up with a guy I had been chatting with for a few weeks. We had initially planned to get a drink together, but with all the rain in NYC he suggested we just meet at his place :-D we have similar ethnicity, background, and work, but he’s slimmer, lighter, more delicate. We spent over an hour just chatting and relaxing together before things started to heat up and moved into the bedroom. I got to fuck him on his back with legs held up, my favorite position.

• Great verbals and moaning, which are a big turn on. Also maybe the hottest thing for me was we didn’t trade any nsfw pics before meeting, so he got a nice big surprise when he took my clothes off. It felt more like the old school hookups you used to have, before the apps changed everything. When I was getting close a few times, he had to have me lighten my grip on his legs – I was squeezing too tightly when I was getting excited. Once I was done, I helped him get off while he sniffed some poppers. We hung out for a while after that, and maybe I’ll see him again. He’s vers, but honestly I probably wouldn’t bottom for him.

• Saturday I wanted to bottom, and had arranged to meet with a guy I’d chatted with a few weeks back, who had just come back to NYC from a trip. Masculine, strong, hairy, a lot like me. Also super friendly and HILARIOUS. He’s almost 10 years older than me, but it didn’t feel that way when we were together. We hung out, fucked, cuddled, laughed, and chatted for about 7 hours! 9am to 4pm.

• He topped me on my back mostly, which again is my preference. And he had this super sexy smile and wink as he worked his way in. I want to start doing something like that when I’m topping, I loved it. He’s a little thicker and longer than me, with nice big natural balls, which is also exactly what I enjoy. We took some breaks, but overall his stamina was really impressive.

• The first time he fucked me, in the morning, was pleasurable as normal. However, the second time he did it later, something interesting happened. See, I normally don’t get hard when I bottom, I’ve come to accept that. However, after hours of hanging out, getting relaxed, and feeling more connected, I got nice and hard the second time he slid inside me! We had a great second time together too that afternoon.

• Ended with him carrying me, and teaching me how to carry him too. That was really fun. Then we showered together, and I sent him on his way home. I had some pizza and ice cream once everything was done. We’ll probably hang out more, maybe I can learn to get in touch with my bottom side better together with him.

The experiences this weekend left me with these incredible waves of good feelings running up and down my body. After a bunch of bad, mediocre, or flake experiences last week, this was the first good sex I’ve had in almost two weeks. I also think I really am more vers top than vers.

Nothing naughty, I was sick this weekend, but she did bring me over some soup and taquitos to help me feel better and left me one of her stuffed animals to keep me company, I thought that was really sweet!

Sorry for posting late. But the setup of the story explains the delay hehe.

I’ve been on call at work this week and have had to tend to server alarms at 03:00 and 04:00 in the morning in addition to my normal work. Most are false alarms but I’m duty bound to verify ALL alarms. How annoying!

Anyway, my partner had been up all night and wanted sex with me at these odd hours. In the middle of it, I hear “BEEP!! BEEP!! BEEP!!” Another bloody on call alarm. I didn’t give a fuck. I let my partner have his way with me first. After I came, I had a look at the alarm. False alarm yet again. I verified the alarm and cuddled back to sleep.