For example I as Central American man Really prefer to mostly watch JAV instead of American porn. Simply because I think it’s hot to see JAV actress like 早川瑞希(Mizuki Hayakawa) or 渋谷ひとみ (Hitomi Shibuya) humilate and degrade submissive men.
But when it comes to datingI prefer to date central American women most of the time because it’s alot easier for me to get along well with them simply because we share the same culture norms, the shame language and are more likely to have the same value as me too. I’m also not sexually submissive in real life.
There’s A LOT more to dating than sexual attraction and kink. As long as you are aware what is a phantasy, interest or curiosity you are good. Porn is first and foremost a form of entertainment and a performance. Being interested in watching it is one thing, dating another. Similar to watching tennis but having no desire to play it yourself.
Porn consumption is however something to be done in moderation where excessive use can lead to unwanted side effects which go past the intended use. But that is the same as with any other form of consumption, too much can be bad but doesn’t have to be.