For example I as Central American man Really prefer to mostly watch JAV instead of American porn. Simply because I think it’s hot to see JAV actress like 早川瑞希(Mizuki Hayakawa) or 渋谷ひとみ (Hitomi Shibuya) humilate and degrade submissive men.
But when it comes to datingI prefer to date central American women most of the time because it’s alot easier for me to get along well with them simply because we share the same culture norms, the shame language and are more likely to have the same value as me too. I’m also not sexually submissive in real life.
I think really it’s something you need to make peace with, but it can be hard to do without some support. It takes a lot of energy to suppress feelings like that, if it’s something you really enjoy, you’d be hiding yourself from your partner and watching it behind their back etc. Just thinking about that scenario is exhausting, it’s filled with shame and guilt. Be yourself. Enjoy your life. Get humiliated by women who enjoy the pleasure you get from it