It’s not a new dating trend, it’s a new name for something old that apparently news outlets want to make trendy and will follow the steps of “flexitarian”.

I’ll just toss this on the increasingly complicated pile of things I am not.

Is getting a lap dance cheating?

Sure, it is an asshole thing to do when your partner doesn’t want you to do it, but cheating for me needs some physical or emotional intimacy that a lapdance doesn’t have enough of I think.