I don’t want to be intrusive, so what is a good “pickup line” to have? Especially relevant for lesbians as this isn’t necessarily a queer orgy but i’m sure there will be some bi or lesbians there! Also, what is a good way to turn someone down nicely?

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    @Neu I’m now thinking about you going as someone’s pet. They can take care of all that for you, in line with your wishes and desires, and they can also guide and help your preferred partners in how they ought to handle you once you have agreed with them who it is you’d love to play with?

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      12 days ago

      No no, not a pet. I really don’t like extreme dom/sub stuff. I like being a sub but probably to a pretty vanilla extent.

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        12 days ago

        @Neu sorry, maybe I could have been clearer! I wasn’t envisaging ears and tail and walking on all fours or anything like that!! I guess I meant more being with an assertive partner who would lead and guide you and facilitate the tricky first interactions so everything came naturally to the point where you could either engage in sexual activity with whoever you happened to be talking to, or comfortably move on

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          12 days ago

          That sounds great! But not so realistic for me at the moment. But thanks for the suggestion 🤩