…and if so, what kinds?

Admittedly, half the reason for this post is dude, nude & lewd rhyming - I’m much more salacious in text ;)

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    Yeah lol.

    This is a NSFW instance, not a “straight dudes only” instance.

    What’s personally annoying is that the front page is almost always the same picture of a woman crossposted to any tangentially related sub. I’m for diversity.

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    The most annoying thing back on reddit is the thirsty guys not knowing how to filter out male posts and downvote them.

    I hope that trend doesn’t carry over. If it does make a new community. Power to you man.

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      Do you mean “not knowing how to filter and instead resort to downvoting male posts”?

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      Yeah there’s a reason admin ended up turning downvotes off. Pretty sure other instances can still downvote posts on here.

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        The way I see it upvote or skip. Don’t downvote any original content. Art, sewing, woodworking, photography, etc. The only thing I downvote really is disinformation.

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    I’m all for it.

    It’s easy enough to filter out if a specific user gets spammy, and I got very used to seeing men naked in erotic settings a long time ago. It doesn’t turn me on, but it’s still nice to know that guys can share themselves and feel good.

    I do have a bit of snobbery about the quality of the pictures themselves, but does that matter? I don’t vote based on it, and don’t even comment often enough to spend that time complaining about someone else’s pics.

    But you did ask for input about types of pics. Me, from the standpoint of appreciating good erotic photography, I prefer shots taken with some care and planning. Random dick picks are boring. As are those where someone is throttling their dong. We’ve all seen that, it ceases to be visually compelling.

    A good shot that includes the rest of the body to some degree, in decent lighting, and in natural poses are top tier. A penis isn’t necessary for a picture to be erotic, the same as full frontal isn’t necessary for photos of women to be. So, when in doubt, diversify. Give us the line of your hip, or the way lats curve. Something showing the beauty of the male form.

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      Appreciate you taking the time to write out such a thoughtful reply!

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    Nope. Not my thing, and I block the poster when it appears. No offence intended, hence quietly blocking.

    I get there’s demand for those images, but I think they should go to communities where the name and/or rules make it clear that the community is OK with it.

    It makes Lemmy a nicer place for everyone, I think. 🤷‍♂️

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    As a penis lover, I always want to see more.

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    My vote is always for more, regardless of gender presentation, and especially for OC

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    Do I want to see it? No. Does someone want to see it? Probably, so keep em coming. I would advocate for dedicated communities though, to make it easier for people to subscribe/block them.

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    Nude dudes attract nude ladies so yes the more the merrier 😎. To those that don’t want to see nude lads just don’t engage if you’re not into it. This is an open space for all adults to be nude and lewd. 😉

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    Fine by me. Please tag it appropriately though: [m]

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      Probably half of the moderation I’ve done on lemmynsfw is tag enforcement for new posters. The struggle is real :'D

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        I’m kind of surprised there isn’t a bot, tbh.

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    Sure, yeah.

    (Sorry was in a hurry) I don’t think I can speak for all of womanhood but like full body pictures not isolated genitals, in fact don’t much care if the guy’s junk is showing at all. Something posed or spontaneous, both are good.