I have had this kink for as long as I can remember and got my wife into it when we were both 18. For me it started on thevisualiser.net (dead now) where you could model the size of your cock and see how it compares to everyone around you. I ended up being on the top of average or the bottom of hung and showed her.
Well fast forward a few months later and I find these games they are playing on there. Compare with the poster above and whoever has the smaller dick has to: ruin his orgasm, swallow his next load, post a picture of his gf, or take a punch to the balls. Since I tend to be bigger than most people playing, why not have a little fun. So I win…and win…and win. Lot of amusement making other people pay up for losing. But then I lost!
So being 19 my first thought is “haha well this was fun but I am not swallowing cum over a dumb internet bet”. Well my gf seems genuinely upset about it! “You think any of them wanted to do it? You made a bet and you lost, now pay up.” So she made me jerk off into a cup and swallow my load.
From there it just became more and more part of our normal sex life. She is a size queen and loves big cocks - not that she’d ever do anything with someone else - but the fantasy is very open and casual amongst us.
Well by dumb luck I met someone on kik and started talking. Ended up meeting up with him and his gf and the four of us hit it off having fun together and exploring each other’s fantasies and kinks. Part of that was a group agreement that this guy was my bitch and his gf was fair game for me and my wife. He sat in a pink chastity cage and watched as I made his gf blow me. Was kind of insane to me (in my mid 20s at this time) that all four of us so easily agreed that he had the smaller dick and was my cuck…like it was just understood from the moment was started fooling around.
Well six months later he found himself on his knees as the three of them shared a facial. Again…casual acceptance that as the cuck he should be reminded he was my bitch and his gf was my play thing.
Winning is great…but anytime my wife doesn’t feel like giving a blowjob she just whips out a pic of a massive cock and says “he would get a blowjob…but you aren’t”.
So that is what sizematters is to me…what does the kink mean to you?