Like for me (male) for example, I like being dominant irl. Not as much as being submissive, but still. In porn though, it turns me off massively when men are dominant.

  • @stockings_n_summer
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    Anything emphasising the race of the performers. No shame if some racial combo is what you’re into, and I’m glad black guys will never run out of jobs in porn, but when I read BBC or BWC im turned off so quickly

    • @[email protected]
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      Anything emphasising the race of the performers

      Are you saying you enjoy inter-racial in real life but not in porn?

      • @stockings_n_summer
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        I enjoy inter-racial in real life & porn. Hot. I don’t enjoy the commoditisation of races. I could make a more nuanced point but folks have said it much better than I.

    • @SmolSteely
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      Porn categories in general are off-putting. In addition to your example there’s also “lesbian” which is two females enacting something for the interest of the male viewer. Cuckolding and sph are massively irritating and harmful as well in my opinion.

      • @iknowitwheniseeit
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        Unless the people involved are unaware that they are being recorded (which is nonconsensual and immoral), all porn is enacting something for the interest of the viewer. Most porn is watched by males, so… ¯\_(ツ)_/¯

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            It’s one thing to visit pornhub. It’s an entirely different thing to pay money for adult content. I’m pretty sure it’s mostly males that are paying.

            Edit: My point being that most content is produced towards a male audience because that is where the money is. Likewise, male talent tends to make much less money than females doing heterosexual porn.

        • @SmolSteely
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          Yes, this is all true. It is more the appropriation of the name I guess. Still harmless fun I hope

  • @[email protected]
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    Almost all studio produced porn turns me off due to how fake it is. Even worse when some porn star is pretending to be something they are not. Whatever that may be, it’s almost always terrible because it’s not genuine. I’m supposed to take a 19 year old lipstick fem dom seriously? Only if the video is portraying her learning how. Which would actually be pretty wholesome.

  • @dazedandconfused
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    I like making out irl (a lot) and porn gets it all wrong. It’s way too hard and fast and exaggerated. I guess it makes sense since it’s for the cameras. It also explains why men are worse at making out than women (on average).

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      Director: “No, not like that! We need to see your tongues!”

      actors proceed to stick out their tongues and flick together

      Director: “Yes, perfect!”

      Me: … bye.

      • @dazedandconfused
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        49 months ago

        Omg yesssss. The number of guys that have tried to do that with me is embarrassing. Pretty much guaranteed we’re not going any further.

  • @IamLost
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    Dirty talk in porn is alright, but IRL it kills my mood.