My Daddy is the best. He is my rock and my own personal hero. He makes me feel safe and loved.

My Daddy and me live in different countries, there is an ocean between us but that hasnt stopped him being there for me when life gets tough. He always asks me how my day is going, he gives me guidance and a place to vent when im feeling overwhelmed and he always encourages me to be the best person i can be.

My Daddy and me have known eachother for almost 9 years now. We met online, on reddit. Our connection has evolved over the years, it has survived sickness, boyfriends and disagreements. My Daddy was there for it all, the good and the bad. He makes sure i never feel alone.

I still go on dates and sometimes even fool around a bit but its my Daddy who tucks me in at night. “Sweet or naughty dreams, little girl?” It makes me float away.

I have few secrets for my Daddy, he knows me inside out. I never have to pretend or hide anything. He gives me a space to be myself, unapologetic.

I do have one secret for my Daddy and that is how much i love and look up to him and how i compare any potential partner to him.

My Daddy lives in between fantasy and reality, i know that. But he has taught me selfworth and has showed me the possibilities of a loving D/s relationship.

I hope my Daddy never leaves me.

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    • VioletOPM
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      Awww thanks :)

      its a bit silly but also important to say the good parts out loud. I still am as smitten with him as the first day we met.

      That is the first pic i ever made for him btw.

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  • @MrBear
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    21 year ago

    This is absolutely adorable! 😍

    • VioletOPM
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      21 year ago

      Thank you 😁

      this was written a while ago, he’s moving in september. Im super excited and still dont fully believe it.

      • @MrBear
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        That’s so exciting!!!

  • @smk
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    Finding happiness like this in a relationship totally should be cherished, congratulations on having it and #relationshipgoals the way you describe your love

    • VioletOPM
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      31 year ago

      Thank you for the sweet words 😘

  • Patriarch 🍆😈
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    21 year ago

    Thank you for this text. It’s a beautiful perspective on what can happen when you build kinky tendencies on solid foundation, responsibility, and appreciation. Sometimes when people first get into D/S relationships, their think it’s all about finding a weaker person (or weaknesses) and then undermining them, making life difficult for them, and getting satisfaction from that. No. It is much more about distributing responsibility and creating a community in which both feel comfortable and can contribute their strengths while also having some weaknesses. A responsible daddy, to stick with that word, will always want the best possible version of the female, making sure she is, strong, powerful. Giving up responsibility often means being able to focus on one thing while someone else is their when needed. Exactly the opposite of keeping small. And reading these lines, who would wish the sweet thing anything but sweet AND naughty dreams ;-)

    • VioletOPM
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      To stick with that word… Daddy.

      I would like to expand a bit on that. It was his choice to use Daddy and not Master or Sir. Ive never asked him why. We dont really engage in ageplay a lot, for aftercare or after a bad day i do enjoy it but its not at the core of our dynamic. To me it represents an emotional attachment, Sir or Master feels different, more distant. I think he made the right choice.

      Also whatever gets his dick hard of course ;)

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