Basically what the title says. How often do you need to train your ass with toys in order to keep things nice and stretched out in preparation for semi regular anal play?

After awhile with no activity things go back to being pretty tight, which necessitates preparing for anal play essentially from square 1. This can be time consuming and a bit frustrating if you’re just in the mood to get filled by something larger but aren’t quite ready.

So how often should one train their ass with dildos, plugs, etc in order to maintain enough looseness to easily take a decent sized toy at a moment’s notice? Every day? A few times a week? Once a week?

  • Klnsfw 🏳️‍🌈
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    79 months ago

    Unless you speak about stuff larger than a cock, I don’t think that how a sphincter works.

    I have anal sex about once a month without any practicing. I just need to be in the mood, have decent foreplays and use lub.

    • @[email protected]
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      69 months ago

      No it definitely works that way even for the average penis.

      My partner and I do anal occasionally and if she doesn’t take time to prepare herself with toys and plugs it’s too painful for her to enjoy it.

      But if we do it regularly which happens occasionally she doesn’t need the prep time

      • @loopedcandle
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        29 months ago

        Yeah, this is one of those “everyone is different” situations.

      • Klnsfw 🏳️‍🌈
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        19 months ago

        You’re right. I guess than being in the mood and forplay act as a pavlovian trigger.

  • @SEND_BUTTPLUG_PICS
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    38 months ago

    My squarepeg egg XL buttplug always fits even if it’s been a month since I last did anything back there. I think it’s more about technique and muscle memory than actually being “stretched out”