• indistincthobby
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    I don’t know, from my limited view into the kink community if this was a sub/dom setup he wouldn’t need the incentive, the subs I know of in the lifestyle not just the bedroom are legitimately dedicated to their dom counterpart and would do their damndest to keep on top of their duties, not have to be coerced into doing them by a tacky chart

    I’m no expert though, I just hang out in a sub focused discord

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      You can’t just assume all kinks are exactly the same. Even though, in actuality the OP is fake.

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        Of course you can’t, just from the subs in the lifestyle I’ve talked to, this situation really doesn’t say sub/dom at all to me

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        the subs I know of in the lifestyle not just the bedroom are legitimately dedicated to their dom counterpart and would do their damndest to keep on top of their duties

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          But no 2 people on earth sharing a life together are living their sexual roles 24/7.

          Things like this are probably used to build up anticipation for their next session.

          If real, I also doubt this is classic Dom/sub play but rather a schoolboy variant.