Man here, but I think I know the answer. Communication, no two people are the same so ask what they like. If you haven’t communicated, then they’re probably not expecting that video and the odds that they’re into unsolicited smut are astronomically low while inversely the odds of getting blocked are astronomically high. Just ask her.

Free bonus advice, smart bulb lighting in her favorite color.

If it wears a funny hat and talks. Like a cowboy!

Howdy m’lady! 🤠