• WaxedWookie@lemmy.world
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      If they were black, it would similarly be a black love story - but what do you think choosing to describe it as a black love story indicates?

      There’s a million different lenses to look through when describing a story or a relationship - the aspects we choose to point to (particularly unprompted, as was the case for the trolls) tend to indicate more about us than the story - particularly when they have no meaningful bearing on the story.

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          Saying they’re black or gay when it has no bearing on the story doesn’t tell anyone much. You didn’t choose to say they were loving, outdoorsy, not super-physical, middle-aged, wealthy, blonde, family-oriented… Noone is coming out to crucify me here - talking about race isn’t taboo - but the non-relevant aspects of the relationship you choose to highlight for reasons tells plenty about you.

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      By who? Unless you’re clicking tags on netflix I don’t think anyone is going to have this hypothetical convo:

      Oh there’s a great episode you should watch

      Oh whats it about? Tell me more?

      Its gay

      Oh ok thanks, all I need to know.

      The quote is about them calling it a “gay story” not a “post apocalyptic gay love story”. The reductive 2 word description is rightfully annoying to a man who brought a well written and fleshed out love story to life, only to be told he made a “gay story”