• ladicius@lemmy.world
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    As long as you move gently and slowly everything will be fine.

    Don’t make the porno mistake and rub it hard and fast like a madman. That’s only up to the owner of the clit and not for anybody else.

    • bluryterOPM
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      Direct clitoris stimulation should be little more than a tickle. Like tickling the penis frenulum.

      • steakmeout@lemmy.world
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        That seriously is not true. Have you actually asked a woman or watched one masturbate? They work the clit, they do not tickle it.

        • Klnsfw 🏳️‍🌈
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          The aswer lies probably in the middle. Whatever it’s a clit or a penis, start gently and follow the body reactions.

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            The answer lies everywhere on the spectrum. The only advice to give someone is to try shit and keep doing the shit that elicits a good response.

  • ma1w4re@lemm.ee
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    After a few years in kitchen cutting chicken this stops looking remotely sexy 🚬😔