Then you need to find a new therapist. Not having the language for therapy is one thing. Not having a therapist that can help you find those words is another.
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You’re absolutely right. The person in this post is a fucking maniac, and they’ve completely lost the plot, but they’re right for the completely wrong reasons.
Work is useful and therapeutic for people because it’s a way to derive purpose and meaning through the things people need from you. You don’t want to let your colleagues down, or have your missed work increase their burden. It’s also a distraction and something to do besides sit at the house with your thoughts like you said.
Therapy gives you mechanisms to cope in healthy ways with the grief. Work can be part of a healthy overarching coping strategy. But it can very easily be a maladaptive way to avoid dealing with it.
There are those who work to live and others who live to work…. And only one of those groups is doing it right…
- digrediortoNews@lemmy.world•Evangelical church urges Trump admin to 'execute' LGBTQ Americans6·6 days ago
Then they’d just as quickly lose that status… rules for the but not for me.
- digrediortoToday I Learned@lemmy.world•TIL road fatalities per 100,000 people vary widely between major US States, Australian States and Canadian ProvincesEnglish1·8 days ago
I’m really hopeful people get their heads out of their asses and flip the majorities in the house and senate next year…
- digrediortoToday I Learned@lemmy.world•TIL road fatalities per 100,000 people vary widely between major US States, Australian States and Canadian ProvincesEnglish2·10 days ago
I mean, you guys have 6 states covering a landmass roughly 75% the size of the US…
Get more states 😜
- digrediortoToday I Learned@lemmy.world•TIL road fatalities per 100,000 people vary widely between major US States, Australian States and Canadian ProvincesEnglish1·10 days ago
I mean, you guys have 6 states covering a landmass roughly 75% the size of the US…
Get more states 😜
- digrediortoToday I Learned@lemmy.world•TIL road fatalities per 100,000 people vary widely between major US States, Australian States and Canadian ProvincesEnglish1·10 days ago
God fucking damnit I knew it wasn’t confirmation bias when I moved from Illinois to Alabama and though, “god damnit, people don’t know how to drive down here.”
Well that’s a bit personal, don’t you think? Why don’t you try getting to know me before you try to get into my pants?
- digrediortoTechnology@lemmy.world•Ted Cruz's plan to punish states that regulate AI shot down in 99-1 voteEnglish1·10 days ago
You’re taking this way too seriously…
- digrediortoTechnology@lemmy.world•Ted Cruz's plan to punish states that regulate AI shot down in 99-1 voteEnglish1·11 days ago
It’s not bottoming when there’s no consent. Then it’s rape.
Cruz totally consents in this case, but as a generality, bottoming is juuuuust fine…
- digrediortoTechnology@lemmy.world•Ted Cruz's plan to punish states that regulate AI shot down in 99-1 voteEnglish2·11 days ago
As in Cruz wasn’t a problem this time.
He’s an eternal cunt and will be a problem again.
- digrediortoTechnology@lemmy.world•Ted Cruz's plan to punish states that regulate AI shot down in 99-1 voteEnglish1·11 days ago
Nothing wrong with bottoming…
- digrediortoTechnology@lemmy.world•Ted Cruz's plan to punish states that regulate AI shot down in 99-1 voteEnglish3·11 days ago
This time
He honestly didn’t look as thrilled about it as she did
Smoking next to a gas pump is one thing… lighting the cigarette is another.
Dude… with trauma like that, the most you can hope for is management. There ain’t no fixing shit.
- digrediortoNews@lemmy.world•Trump is trying to pay his way into a US baby boom. Experts say it won’t work15·2 months ago
Why would he only be asking for his needs?
Shit is tense here, dude…