fushuan [he/him]

Oh, so it’s like kebab, something solid to fill you fast so you can get properly shitfaced.

Ah no, what I do is “let me repeat to see if I understood correctly” and then tell my version.

I know you are joking but it’s a really good way to convey that you understood what they said, or to make sure you did. I do it all the time when being on the same page is important.

I was so confused, what’s an open source OCR tool got to do with Lemmy? 😂😂

If you tell that that’s a hippie beard in my local metal bar… You might be politely corrected because we are awesome.

Also, punks and metalheads get beards and rings too.

well, I wouldn’t say that’s my case since most of my job postings are of spaniard consultant companies that have projects for banks. Also, data engineering is kinda different from generic software dev, we build data manipulation pipelines, database migrations… etc. Not many end user facing applications or APIs or such, most input/output is databases.

I don’t really get the “city” sentiment since I only search for countrywide remote jobs (Spain), but country by country the experience will differ ofc. I also specialised myself really quick into a data based field which is needed since all the fucking banks want to update their 3 decade or older systems. And by the time all of them finish being updated they will need to be updated again sooooo… :)

I work in IT and have no shortage of offers in linkedin. In hiring season it’s like 3 a week. I did go to the workforce with a masters though. 5 years of education in total. Also, tbh, I’m a senior dev now (+7 years of experience) so the playing field changes a lot.

Tell your friend to search for startups that don’t pay that well just to get the initial 2 years of experience, then jump up.

counterpoint, if that email was problematic with reply all, should have been privately chatted instead. replyall should be the default options because the amount of times in a single chain that i had to answer with something asinine (including xyz again so they can give feedback about it) just to include everyone again… way too many.

that the app has limited functionality without those permissions is scummy, but you should be able to access those photos from another app, Google Photos isn’t locking them out of access, right? what’s hostage about this?

That ADHD is a disability is a fact, it makes living in society harder. Also, saying that someone has a disability and that someone is disabled is different, I did not say that.

You worked out coping mechanisms that you must employ so that life isn’t harder than baseline for you as long as you apply them, I would say that you are working harder than someone that doesn’t need to think of coping mechanisms.

I completely agree that someone that’s little isn’t a disabled person because they are more than their disability, but denying that what makes them different from others makes their life overall way harder would be unwise. It’s a disability for which a lot of countries have money and help programs specifically because life’s harder than for people who don’t have it because society sin’t designed for little people, or for people with ADHD, or whatever other thing.

Let me repeat it because I really want to drive home the point that I never said that you or anyone else is disabled. Disabilities are part of what defines a person, not what solely defines it, but three’s nothing wrong with acknowledging that something is a disability because it makes living in society harder.

Edit: I reread your old comment and you did say the following:

It may make one smarter if it causes them to have to work harder than others to reach the same level.

That’s what I was commenting on, your premise is that if ADHD makes one work harder to reach others’ level, then that will help them be smarter. I disagree with that notion, I would say that if with ADHD you are able to reach others’ level, you were smarter to begin with. So the smartness of the person is irrelevant to my comment, it’s the part about having to work harder to reach the same level that I was highlighting. You being able to work out the coping mechanisms and keep using them is because you are smart, not the other way around.

I’m knowledgeable about operating systems.
I’m good with math.
I eat junk food and drink energy drinks/soda.
I read about new techniques but am very wary of heavily marketed stuff.
I read a ton of Asian comics.

People assume that I know how to do webpages, they don’t know what a web developer is. No, I don’t know l. Well barely but not really, I’m a data engineer goddammit.

other than that the British people don’t want to be in the EU.

So your point is that regardless of the euro thing the Brits don’t want back? Then why are there so many polls with majority wanting in, and so many talks about it? It’s all media manipulation?

New ones have to to become full members though?

I totally get that, and that a lot of them are dead now because of COVID and age. Still, it’s not the citizens that have privileges, it’s the country, and the majority decided out.

Y’all being on equal footing with other new members shouldn’t be seen as punishment, it would be incredibly unfair to other new members if y’all got privileges when joining back. Those other countries also have people that wants to join as much as yours did that didn’t want to leave.

Look at those gerrymandered counties! Precious!
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If you are smart, you manage it better and people perceive you as smart.

Uh… Duh? You basically said “if smart, smart”.

If you have to work harder than other to reach the same level and to keep it, you are not smarter or dumber, you just have a disability that makes it harder.

Aaand don’t come back!

You clearly don’t live in a tourist heavy zone. Also the fact that you generalise what some locals in selected very tourist heavy cities are doing with the whole fucking country is very telling. We are better without you <3

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