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  • gid@lemmy.blahaj.zonetoMen's Liberation@lemmy.ca•‘There were no warning signs’: what happens when your partner falls into the ‘manosphere’?English
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    6 days ago

    I take it you have not been through the family courts then?

    I have not. I also did not say that this aspect of famiy law is not unfair to men. It is grossly unfair! It also has a complex history that isn’t easy to boil down to “men are bad, women are better”. It comes from patriarchal structures than enforce gendered roles that disadvantage both men and women.

    But acknowledging is is unfair to men isn’t the same as saying misandry and misogyny are the same, because they have different effects and require different approaches to counteract them.

    For example, misogyny accounts for violence against women at a greater extent than misandry accounts for violence against men. And to be clear: I am not saying that one of these situations is not as bad as the other. But they require different resources to manage the consequence and different approaches to tackle them.

    Most men aren’t CEOs holding women down. Most don’t feel that theoretical privilege.

    Most CEOs aren’t women. While the average man might not feel that theoretical privilege, they are still represented in a way women are not. The discourse around privilege is not about making someone feel bad for having it, it’s about empowering people to recognise when others don’t have it.

    The funny thing is that folk are so fixated on dogma around feminism they end up losing their audience in a debate. You see “shut up, man child. Acknowledge your privilege” attitudes followed by “why are men listening to Andrew Tate and not feminists”. The first should be locked up for a long time. The latter do contribute to pushing men away to the monosphere

    Here’s a good example of male privilege: for decades, automobile safety systems were designed and tested with dummies that advantaged average males over females. For a man stepping into a vehicle, who had nothing to do with the design and testing of the safety systems, he probably won’t feel any more privileged than a woman in the same vehicle. But if the vehicle is in a serious accident, the woman is less protected.

    Acknowledging that isn’t saying “shut up, you have no right to complain about the dangers of cars because someone else has it worse than you”. But it’s a reminder that there are other people with different experiences and needs to yours, because of the privileges not afforded to them.

    Also, to address your final point: there is a long and storied history of chauvenists derailing conversations about misogyny by centering the dialogue on their complaints and injustices. This is why some men are told “shut up, man child”. I’m not a woman but I can imagine women are exhausted by this.

  • gid@lemmy.blahaj.zonetoGrapheneOS@lemmy.sdf.org•App Store RecommendationsEnglish
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    12 days ago

    Yes.

    1. F-Droid signs all builds with its own keys, so you can’t readily verify if an app supplied by F-Droid is the same as on other app stores.

    2. F-Droid allows a lower target SDK: this is good for users running very old versions of Android, but bad for people who download an app that hasn’t been updated in years and has multiple security vulnerabilities.

    3. Slow/irregular updates: often it can takes days, weeks or sometimes months for an app update to be available via F-Droid (at least from their official repo). This can have real consequences if you’re waiting for an update for a critical security issue.

    Here’s an example of someone leveraging a supply chain attack against an F-Droid build of an app.

    F-Droid is a great project for providing an alternative source of apps to app stores run by companies, and I admire their goals, but from a security standpoint I wouldn’t recommend using it unless you have no other source for an app you need.

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