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  • I’d argue you are a vegan if you eat chicken for profit though, because again labels aren’t religion. There’s no score being kept, no penalty applied to you or your veganism because you ate chicken. The moment you stop eating chicken, you’re vegan. Life isn’t all or nothing, and it’s detrimental to think it is.

    Again this isn’t religion, there is no cosmic scoresheet that is tallying your purity. If you suck a thousand dicks and then decide after #1001 that you’re straight, fuck it, you’re straight, who the fuck is anyone to say otherwise? There’s just no benefit to thinking or living life like there’s some outsider tallying your score that you have to appease if you want to identify as a whatever.


  • That’s totally cool, obviously whatever you feel is what you feel and that’s right, I am not trying to convince you otherwise.

    But there is a mountain of difference between “I’ve never been attracted to penis” and “If you’re prepared to change your sexuality for money then your sexuality was a scam in the first place,” which is all my point has ever been.

    Don’t suck dick because you don’t want to suck dick, not because doing so will betray some kind of concept of “straight” upon which you are defining yourself, you know?




  • I guess it depends on why you want to do it, doesn’t it? Do you want to do it because you are questioning your attractions and potential sexuality? Yeah that’s probably bi-curious. Do you just have some sort of intellectual curiosity? A desire to understand the appeal rather than explore your personal interest? Is somebody offering you $20 to do it? For any of those, I think it’s less black-and-white.

    But what I think most and most importantly, is those labels benefit us when we wish to group, find commonality, or define preferences, so they have merit, but they do us disservice when they limit us or restrict our agency to that which we can define into convenient simplifications. So like, don’t not use them or anything (do you want, basically always), just don’t sanctify them. In the same way that virginity is mostly a construct, sexuality is too.

    And I’ll be honest, I wasn’t expecting the “I can’t suck because if I did I’d probably turn into the most voracious glizzy guzzler in history” response, so fuck if I know anymore if my little soapbox statement even applies to the situation at hand tbh, but I do think we sanctify, to our detriment, way too much in modern society, definitely including a lot involving sex and sexuality.

    And no, I’m not gifted with brevity, I’m sorry.

    edit: oh you are dude, my bad. I got confused somehow.


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    I’m not sure I’m that interested in performing it in real life, and it’s not exactly what you’re talking about, but creampie cleanup cuckolding videos are basically the hottest thing in terms of pornography. Even beyond that I think watching a woman swallowing is 10x hotter than a facial or any other kind of cumshot, so yeah, cum consumption is a pretty sexy idea in general.








  • I think a big part of it is that, despite it being “indecent exposure,” a large amount of the population just doesn’t care. Like they aren’t out going naked themselves, but plenty of people understand that a naked body isn’t a bomb, it’s just a naked body, and that means it is entirely harmless. So even if you see somebody being naked in public… so what?

    Like put yourself in the shoes of that bystander - if you were walking down the boardwalk and saw a nudist, would you immediately reach into your phone and call the police? If so, fucking why?







  • Ooof I’m an asshole for this one, but admittedly this was high school so forgive my childhood self.

    I had been flirting with two girls (openly, nothing behind anyone’s back) and knew that both wanted me to ask them to homecoming, but definitely preferred one (we’ll call her the brunette). But when one of my friends mentioned he was thinking about asking the other girl, the blonde, to homecoming, I didn’t like the idea of having one of my options taken from me without my input so I asked the blonde out to homecoming instead.

    We went on a couple of dates after that but it was clear there wasn’t really anything more there so we called it off. In the meantime my friend went back to his ex (a bad move for him) and the brunette I actually really liked was furious I didn’t ask her to homecoming and was basically done with me forever after that.

    So yeah, bad move on my part all around.