• @Ciralinde
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    15 hours ago

    You can, like you said about the girls, just leave if you don’t like the Ukrainian government’s conduct of the war.

    I wish I could. It’s very hard. All cities are full of blockposts that check docs of all men, there are conscription officers with police at subway station entraces/exits, at bus/train stations, etc. It’s hard to even get out of city, it’s hard to travel between cities, and borders is a whole different story. EU borders from Ukrainian side are patrolled with night-vision drones, photo-trap cameras, even some helicopters. It takes extraordinary skills and luck to cross the border. And regarding Crimea, can you open the map and tell me how I’m supposed to travel there from Ukraine even if there were no blockposts? I mean, it requires crossing the battlefields. Those who are in Crimea though, they can leave through Russia and go wherever the fuck they want, even go back into Ukraine through basically any intermediate country after leaving Russia.

    • @[email protected]OP
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      25 hours ago

      Wait until the Russian army rolls over your city. Then it’ll be really hard to leave. What are you supposed to do, cross the battlefields?

      • @Ciralinde
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        15 hours ago

        Since it’s Kyiv it would mean it’s finally over I guess. Russia has open borders so if we eventually end up in Russia we can just leave.

        • rockerface 🇺🇦
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          35 hours ago

          “russia has open borders” uh huh, as well as democracy, free speech and human rights, yep

          • @Ciralinde
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            I said it has open borders which is factually true. Also, last summer they paid their conscripts in Moscow 22k$ for a contract. Regarding “human rights”, well, lets try to count human rights. We don’t have the right to criticise our government and we don’t have the right to leave the country. Russians don’t have the right to criticize their government but they do have the right to leave the country. They also pretty much free to walk their cities and participate in whatever activities present there unlike our conscription-aged men who are only really allowed to participate in war.

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              they paid their conscripts in Moscow 22k$ for a contract

              This one broke my heart a little bit. I’ve seen some of these guys dying on video, in a cold puddle, bleeding out and gasping.

              They also pretty much free to walk their cities and participate in whatever activities present there unlike our conscription-aged men who are only really allowed to participate in war.

              Yeah, I’m sure you’re posting from Kyiv. You sound exactly like Ukrainians I know in person and on social media. They all talk exactly like you, and every so often they bring up what the bonus amount is for people signing up for armed forces in Moscow. It’s uncanny.

              Edit: Typo

              • @Ciralinde
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                11 hour ago

                and on social media

                Maybe those people are there to create a picture for you. Now that USAID and similar projects are stopping, we might see less of those.

                every so often they bring up what the bonus amount is for people signing up for armed forces in Moscow

                You all look at this literally as battle of good vs evil, the reality: ukraine beats, kidnaps and tortures people to send them to meat grinder, while russia stopped forced conscription and pays 22k$ to motivate their conscripts. The propaganda image of ukraine as good or democratic is absurd. It’s just a meat shield of west at best, and it rapidly becomes more and more inefficient.

                If you want to check current ukrainian inside discourse, watch independent ukrainian bloggers, a few for a start:

                • @[email protected]OP
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                  21 hour ago

                  Maybe those people are there to create a picture for you

                  Or, maybe you’re there to create a picture for me. I didn’t say it, you did.

                  I know the Ukrainian woman whose son was a client of mine for a while would have some pretty harsh words for you. I knew her for a while, and one day said one thing in support for the war, and it was like this outpouring came out of her of appreciation for it and support for Ukraine.

                  I don’t really know the Ukrainian guy in my gaming group well enough to know where he stands on the war. We’ve talked about it, just a small amount. He definitely didn’t say he was afraid of being tortured by the Ukrainian government, I’ll say that.

                  Before the war, I actually kind of liked the Russian people I knew, on a personal level. I still do, I guess, although unrelated events have meant we don’t really see each other now. Their mentality is pretty similar to mine, weirdly enough.

                  You’re saying all this shit to me about USAID creating a picture for me, when you have no idea how I form my pictures. You conveniently excised the other part that came before “and on social media,” which I had put there for a very specific reason.

                  You all look at this literally as battle of good vs evil, the reality: ukraine beats, kidnaps and tortures people to send them to meat grinder, while russia stopped forced conscription and pays 22k$ to motivate their conscripts.

                  Man, get the fuck out. I didn’t say “evil,” the people whose country is being invaded said that. Sounds pretty right to me.

                  You sure are trying hard to talk up Russia, for someone who lives in Kyiv. Keep saying bullshit. I welcome it, let’s talk.

                  • @Ciralinde
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                    159 minutes ago

                    Women and ukrainians who live outside of Ukraine, especially those who left before May 2024, have a very different mental image of Ukraine. For me the main turning point is the scale of unlawful forced conscription really. Simple as that. I stopped paying taxes, stopped donating, and stopped mentally supporting Ukraine. I just care for borders to open at this point. Both Ukraine and Russia are hopeless corrupt evil dictatorships to me.

            • rockerface 🇺🇦
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              You’re rather naive if you think you won’t get conscripted into the russian army the moment Kyiv gets occupied. Though, with this kind of thinking, I’m sure they’ll welcome you.

              Edit: for what it’s worth, I’m also one of those conscription-age men living in Kyiv trying my best to not get drafted. That doesn’t mean thinking I won’t have to fear for my life and freedom under russian occupation. The only real way for me and you to regain our safety is for Ukraine to win the war. And the least we can do for that is to stop pretending russian government has any sort of moral advantage

              • @Ciralinde
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                12 hours ago

                our safety is for Ukraine to win the war

                It’s impossible and it was obvious to anyone who bothered to check basic arithmetic from the very beginning. My best hope is for some kind of ceasefire, elections, peace deal, which all give some little chance that maybe mobilization will stop and borders will open.

                you won’t get conscripted into the russian army the moment Kyiv gets occupied

                And sent where, to Baltic or Poland? Okay, I’ll proceed to give up to NATO soldiers immediately.

                And the least we can do for that is to stop pretending russian government has any sort of moral advantage

                It’s not that they’re nice, it’s just that ukrainian government turned country into a worse dictatorship than russia is, and it really uncovered some truths about democracies, media, how european are ukrainian values and how helpful UN is, and many other things.

                • rockerface 🇺🇦
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                  32 hours ago

                  So why don’t you go get conscripted and give up to russian soldiers? If Ukraine is a worse dictatorship, surely that will be a step up.

                  Oh wait, you actually are talking out of your ass.

                  • @Ciralinde
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                    11 hour ago

                    So why don’t you go get conscripted and give up to russian soldiers? If Ukraine is a worse dictatorship, surely that will be a step up.

                    Just one “step up” from ukrainian levels of shittiness isn’t enough. This is too unsafe compared to giving up to EU. Russians will definitely want to trade you to some of their captured people even if you don’t want to go back. EU will most likely not trade you back if you ask them.