I am not asking about switches, I’m asking about people who identify with a submissive role rather than a dominant role.
I can understand intuitively why a dominant could feel vulnerable or violated in a submissive role and be uncomfortable in it, but I can only guess how a submissive would feel with roles swapped. And I’m sure these all can change wildly based on each person and their personality.
(This is a slower community, so doms talking about subbing are welcome too, although I’m more curious about the scenario in the title)
I have only ever done an erp, but my god…did I unexpectedly enjoy teasing the hell out of the other person. And I didn’t want to admit it either, but it was stupid fun (I didn’t get off it myself, it was just sadistic glee).
I didn’t know it could feel so good.