Let’s pretend that speaking openly about sex and sexuality is not, for most of the people and time, a taboo.

If you had a friend or an acquaintance ask you to suggest some kink they could explore a bit, as safely as possible, to just breathe some fresh air into their sex life, what would it be?

  • NeekaEnglish
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    2 days ago

    Vanilla-as-kink is just what it sounds like: fetishising normative sex.

    I’m not partaking myself, but I’d be willing to use it as part of a sadism play.

    “I’m gonna tie you up and tease you within an inch of your life, and when you’re begging, screaming for more I’ll untie you and caress you softly… I’m going to kiss you twice, I’m going to penetrate you and cum inside you in just a couple thrusts, leaving you like that, utterly dissatisfied, and fall asleep next to you while you stew in your frustrations…”

    “What are you gonna do to me tonight? I’m going to have us share a bottle of wine, grope you in front of the TV, I’m gonna drag you to the bedroom and fuck you, missionary style, with a semi stiff penis. You’re gonna smell the wine on my breath, my clumsy movements and flop under my mechanical thrusting, lulled by my meek grunts until I give up and fall down beside you, turning my back to you and fall asleep… snoring loudly.”

    Or whatever vanilla folks do, I might’ve lost touch. There seems to be a lot of pent up frustration in those turning to the kinkier side though.