Let’s pretend that speaking openly about sex and sexuality is not, for most of the people and time, a taboo.

If you had a friend or an acquaintance ask you to suggest some kink they could explore a bit, as safely as possible, to just breathe some fresh air into their sex life, what would it be?

  • deezcashewsEnglish
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    3 days ago

    Dress up. Or maybe spanking. Or light ass play.

    But like, read up on shit first. A lot of people tried stuff when they were younger and will never do it again because they did it wrong (aka most women and anal)

    • Weird. Probably horny.OPEnglish
      1·
      2 days ago

      Oh, I have. Erotica is my prefered genre and I’ve spent a good amount of money on bedside table books.

      • deezcashewsEnglish
        1·
        2 days ago

        I mean like, instructional stuff. Like how to do anal properly, or how to actually choke someone without hurting them, or how to tie knots that don’t cut off circulation.

        • Weird. Probably horny.OPEnglish
          1·
          2 days ago

          Yes, yes and yes but no and no on the 2nd and 3rd.

          Respect whoever is into those but that just rubs be me off the wrong way

          I’ve read my share.

          I’m not trying to get free advice for me. I was actually trying to get to know people here.