Be specific and dont act like you are on this sub for non nsfw reasons.
I think a lot of people try and cast a wide net with their post, so that they have the most opportunities to find someone to chat with, and I do get that can be the case sometimes. But I would wager, more times than not, you already have something specific cooked up that you’re trying to accomplish. If you don’t actually tell anyone, you very likely might be missing a connection with someone who shares your interest.
On the flip side of that, when you reach out to someone, dont play games. If I were to post, “I want to do a roleplay scenario where xyz…”, dont reach out to me asking if I can rate your IRLs. It’s just…frustrating.
I should mention, most of my interactions so far here have been great, and if anyone is at all fault of breaking the above, it’s me.
Anyways, I digress…
Reach out to me if you’d like to have a back and forth roleplay story about getting invited to (and eventually attending) your first orgy. I think it would be fun for me to play multiple roles (your friend, the host, attendees, etc). Maybe even using chat as a makeshift phone for texting? Open to workshopping it. Reach out with your real age and your real or roleplay personal description.
Heads up: people treat NSFW Ask Lemmy as if it were NSFW Chat. I never see anyone here.