Not to be rude, but its more an issue with my own body and not a lack of experience. I have tried anal a lot of times, and while my sphincter is tight thats not why its painful. Its more the discomfort of something inside me deeper. And of the thrusting. The pain isn’t chaffing either.
You’re not being rude at all! If anything I’m probably the one being rude for trying to give so much unsolicited advice. I’m sorry to hear that there’s pain regardless. Discomfort (and even pain if you’re not careful) is to be expected with toys above a certain length due to the rectal bend, which could be part of it maybe?
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Not to be rude, but its more an issue with my own body and not a lack of experience. I have tried anal a lot of times, and while my sphincter is tight thats not why its painful. Its more the discomfort of something inside me deeper. And of the thrusting. The pain isn’t chaffing either.
You’re not being rude at all! If anything I’m probably the one being rude for trying to give so much unsolicited advice. I’m sorry to hear that there’s pain regardless. Discomfort (and even pain if you’re not careful) is to be expected with toys above a certain length due to the rectal bend, which could be part of it maybe?
Maybe but a big part of the discomfort is from any movement