Besides the porn industry selling the “money shot”, how much of a real thing is cum play for the average person?

As a sperm producer, when I masturbate and I know I’ll be getting under shower next, I play around a bit and make a mess of myself but, again, I know I’m getting a shower next.

With my partner, we’ve played and have had a lot of fun, but unless showering is up next (or already happening) it is very down in the lust list.

Personally speaking, facials don’t really do much for me. Not really sexy having the other person squinting and afraid of getting a rope up a nostril or in the eye. I like having eye contact; speaks volumes when speech centers are reduced to minimal services.

On the other hand, I do enjoy the visuals and emotions that come with seeing my sperm oozing out of my partner and/or on her skin. It has a sort of primal appeal to it.

So, how much of a porn staple vs real life of a thing are facials and cum play in general?