As a sub, what would you most wish for? want to avoid?
As a top, how would your reward your good sub? your bad sub?
(What other question(s) did I miss?)
Obviously, there are no right or wrong answers , and other potential outcomes depending on your own D/s dynamics - simply would love to hear from both subs and Doms/Dommes…
It works. The trick is to commit, immediately. Don’t let yourself relax and relax into your refractory period. Self facials are also good for this.
Personally I struggle the most with eating my cum off of my body like if I cum on my stomach/chest because the act of trying to scoop it all with your fingers just isn’t very sexy. Ruining into a cup or onto a plate or something works well.
Or maybe into/onto food? Not being allowed to eat your dinner (or breakfast!) until you’ve ruined onto it
Ehh yeah that can be hot but it doesn’t have the same conditioning affect I think