I’m asexual but I enjoy feeling horny so I dabble in chastity. I find that I stop feeling horny after about 2 weeks and don’t really desire an orgasm anymore. Do other people experience chastity similarly or is this another difference from being ace? I’ve not gone longer than a month really so maybe, as someone suggested the other day, it comes in waves?
Never - for me. I don’t play with chastity to supresss or deny - for me it’s trying something “new” to goose up my horniness - when I have the chastity cage/band on, it’s to excite and to keep the mind mentally focused on the idea/themes around it, like keyholder, D/s dynamics, visual stimulation (I’m a male, so simply wired to be more visually oriented, and seeing extra adornments like cages, piercings turn me on)
TBH, “normal” porn and the old “in-out, wham-bam” gets pretty boring after seeing it for the 1000th time and beyond haha