I’m asexual but I enjoy feeling horny so I dabble in chastity. I find that I stop feeling horny after about 2 weeks and don’t really desire an orgasm anymore. Do other people experience chastity similarly or is this another difference from being ace? I’ve not gone longer than a month really so maybe, as someone suggested the other day, it comes in waves?

  • @chloespankedEnglish
    2•1 year ago

    Getting into the 3+ week time frame, I just feel full and want a release, but there’s not a whole lot of desire for sex or playfulness, just release.

    I also experienced something like this in the weeks after my horniness peaked. I ruined an orgasm after a long streak of abstinence. And, I felt extremely relaxed afterwards, like feeling satiated after not eating for a long time, peeing after not being able to for a long time, sitting after standing, coming in out of the cold, etc. Hearing what you said, and reflecting on my experience, I think not coming at some point past the peak of horniness felt less sexual and more just like a generic biological drive. I could definitely see that sort of phase being suboptimal for couples who aren’t trying to suppress the “desire for sex or playfulness” (as you perfectly put it) of the person wearing the cage