So… let’s talk about my last post.

I got A LOT of comments telling me to gain weight and that I look unhealthy.

Any comments like that from not on will earn you a block. I understand you’re coming from a place of concern- but I am active on being healthy.

I don’t weigh myself, I eat when I’m hungry, I eat a lot of fresh food, I love cooking and baking, I love swimming, I love being out in the sunshine, I eat too much sugar.

Don’t make me feel weird about my weight. I deal with that enough in real life.

  • @[email protected]English
    2•9 months ago

    I think you have the right attitude. I’m old as hell in internet years. I have been very in shape. I have been skinny. I have been fat, and now I have a dad bod. I am a millennial that has lived over half their life. I’m not trying to attract anyone.

    You shouldn’t put up with anyone putting you down. Your body is perfect the way it is. I am subscribed to 1 porn community. It’s Indian girls, and it’s because the women there aren’t perfect by western standards, but they are the most realistic examples of women I’ve seen on the internet. At least around here.

    Anyway, I have to take kids to school. You seem like you have a pretty good head on you shoulders. Do what makes you happy and don’t worry about the rest. There will always be people to criticize your choices, but you have to block them out.

    I hope you have a great week.

    • SierraOPEnglish
      1•9 months ago

      Thank you.

      Also thank you for taking the time and having a conversation about this tricky topic.

      We all want to be treated well and with kindness regardless of how we look. I hope the school run is surprisingly enjoyable and that your week is filled with yum treats