• @[email protected]
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      5210 months ago

      Mastodon.social, the biggest instance ran by Mastodon devs didn’t and encourages wait and see approach.

    • @[email protected]
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      1310 months ago

      Is there a list of instance somewhere that we can pick from? I thought someone was putting together a list.

    • Draconic NEO
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      210 months ago

      A lot of instances did, the flagship instances run by the Devs of Mastodon didn’t. They think that it’s good and want to encourage it, though at the same time their instances have a spam problem so bad many instances have decided to limit them, making it harder to follow people if your account is on them.

      Also noticed that many people say they won’t follow people who are on Mastodon.social or approve follow requests. Which is a bit extreme but I also get it, there’s lots of spambots and not great people on those instances and moderation is slow since they’re so big which doesn’t really help.

    • SkaveRat
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      -110 months ago

      some do.

      I have a small community masto instance and don’t. If my users want to block the instance, it’s literally 2 clicks and a confirmation away.

      Doing to server wide is massively patronizing towards the users

      • @[email protected]
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        510 months ago

        Nah, users can vote and then if they don’t get the vote they want, they can go to another instance.

        • kpw
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          410 months ago

          Users on Mastodon can simply block their domain if they want to.

          • @[email protected]
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            210 months ago

            But can’t Mastodon post on Lemmy and Lemmy can’t block instances on an individual basis? That’s the way I understand it currently stands. I don’t want threads showing up in my feed and would like to block them.

        • SkaveRat
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          210 months ago

          yup. And that’s what we did. The majority of people either didn’t care either way or didn’t want to block it. With way more “don’t block” than “block”. So that’s that. At least for now

      • 👁️👄👁️
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        -110 months ago

        I see it as just virtue signaling. At the end, we can choose to not join those servers who defederate with them, but I can also think it’s a stupid decision at the same time lol.

        • SkaveRat
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          810 months ago

          yeah, I get what you mean. But it’s still mostly fitting in the way I feel about it. Basically: users can think for themselves. They don’t need me to take care of the bit scary world out there.

          Doing so for a whole instance feels super condecending. “I know better than you what you want. I’m going to block it”

            • loobkoob
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              I don’t know if it’s perhaps a regional thing but, in the UK, “being patronising” is used pretty much exclusively in the pejorative sense, with a similar meaning to “condescending”. I don’t think I’ve ever heard (in actual conversation) “being patronising” used to mean someone is giving patronage, in fact - we would say someone is “giving patronage” or “is a patron” instead. We also pronounce “patronise” differently, for whatever reason: “patron” is “pay-trun”, “patronage” is “pay-trun-idge” but “patronise” is “pah-trun-ise”.

              It seems the pejorative use of the word dates back to at least 1755, too, so it’s not exactly a new development.

              • @[email protected]
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                510 months ago

                in the UK, “being patronising” is used pretty much exclusively in the pejorative sense, with a similar meaning to “condescending”

                It’s the same in the US, and has been ever since I can remember. No idea where this person lives that the positive meaning would be the first thing they’d think of.

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                What about patronising as in ‘patronising this business’? A little archaic, but I do hear it from time to time, usually with the ‘pay’ pronounciation.

                Then again, if someone is accusing me of being patronising (which happens a lot for reasons I don’t quite understand, but I digress), it’s split odds whether I’m “pah-trun-ising” or “pay-trun-ising”.

                English is weird (perhaps this is its wyrd?)