Let’s play a nice and simple Would You Rather! I love the wide spectrum of sexuality that this community has and want to hear more views.
Would you rather be fucked by a cis woman with a strapon, a cis man, or a non-binary/trans person with a strapon/cock/etc?
Obviously the last answer is very flexible, feel free to specify as much or as little as you desire ❤️
Going with cis woman because of established sexuality (you know, the part that I’m sure of). Though very curious what a transfeminine or even cis male partner would be like.
It takes courage that I currently don’t have to explore those paths though. I’d argue more so for a cis male partner than for a transfeminine partner.
Any accounts of experience with exploring those options would be welcome.
My personal experience: I haven’t been fucked by a man, but have been pegged by a woman and have sucked a man’s dick twice. So I can’t give you a firsthand account of being fucked by a cis man, but here are a few thoughts that might apply:
First, be VERY upfront with the person about everything. Set hard boundaries, let them know what you’re into and what you hope to get from the experience. Most people are going to be accommodating and good to you. Be sure to mention protection during this (if applicable)!
Second, you’re likely going to be very nervous, there’s no getting around that. That’s part of why the hard boundaries et al are important. If I’m being honest, the nervousness might make the first time less enjoyable. Take a little time after to think about what you liked about it, what could’ve gone better, etc. Remember that you’ll be more relaxed and able to enjoy the next time more, if you decide to go down that route.
Third, you’ll never know if you don’t try. It’s cliche, I know, but I am SO glad I tried.
Also, I don’t know where you live/what the women are like there, but every woman I’ve ever talked to about pegging has been up for trying it. Most of those women were queer though, so do with that information what you will lol.