K.K.

Just a pansexual person from the US (PA) who loves crossdressing, chastity, et al! Owned by my Goddess but free to chat 😚

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Cake day: June 23rd, 2023

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  • K.K.toSissyMay Discussion Megathread 💕💕
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    20 days ago

    We’re definitely in similar boats!! Always appreciate your perspective ❤️

    But yeah, hard to take the feminist hat off 😅 That’s a big part of why I try to mostly post positive stuff when it comes to captions or anything. And we haven’t even touched on the issues of racism that pervade multiple kinks, including some sissy stuff…


  • K.K.toSissyMay Discussion Megathread 💕💕
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    20 days ago

    Always a tough question if I actually am a sissy y’know. I like some aspects of it, for sure, but I do think there are some who tread too far into misogynistic territory (“oh it’s humiliating to be a woman!!!”) which is Real Bad. But the idea of being a subby femme slut to be used by others for pleasure is what I’m here for 😅

    As for the how: I think it coalesced around a few different things over the years. My love for anal led to a love for chastity in the pursuit of the elusive prostate orgasm. I’ve always loved power dynamics in sex and being a sub suits me, generally. I had the classic “girlfriend left a pair of panties here, guess I need to try them on… why am I hard?” experience that was a catalyst, though it took me a long time to accept that.

    As for the queer aspect: I’ve had those thoughts since I was a teen. Part of the reason I had so much trouble coming to terms with it is that I’m not really romantically interested in men. So for a long time I was like “ah, I don’t wanna date a dude, that means I’m straight”. Luckily I eventually realized that I can want to have sex with dudes (and anyone else 👀) without dating them and now I’m a proud pansexual.


  • K.K.toSissyLooking for cage recommendations
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    22 days ago

    I believe Cherry Keeper is still based in the EU/their manufacturer is. I haven’t tried any after they had a manufacturing shakeup but the old ones were good, and the amount of size options/special options is wild.


  • K.K.toSissyLooking for cage recommendations
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    23 days ago

    If you want to go expensive, Kink3D Cobra is amazing to me. For less expensive with lots of customization, Cherry Keeper is the way to go. I’d just say pay the extra money to get the smooth finish with those, will make your life much better.













  • K.K.toAsk Lemmy NSFWWould you ever let a girl film you?
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    3 months ago

    I’m maybe not the perfect person to answer this but still!

    Filmed in bed: absolutely. Suggest it to a girl: have done and would do again! Tied up: I might ask for ME to be tied up instead but I’m thrilled either way :3 General vibe: talk about it beforehand and make sure you know whether either/both parties actually want to post it anywhere/send it to anyone, or if it’s just something you’re doing for fun.


  • They’re not a huge step up from Adam and Eve but I usually shop at TooTimid and PinkCherry. They usually make it pretty easy to find out which of their products are high quality and which aren’t and PinkCherry typically has great sales. (this is US-centric but I believe PinkCherry operates in Canada as well!)