I think for me the most important part of having sissy sex is how much I feel like the sissy I want to feel like when having sex, so what’s most important to me in a partner is the chemistry (we know what each other likes and are compatible), mutual attraction, and everything else is good.

But this question’s about their sex/gender/equipment. I’d prefer a real penis. Cis man or trans woman doesn’t matter. Blowjobs are more fun, they can shoot loads, and they’ll probably enjoy pounding me more