Being in chastity is fun, though it’s important to communicate well and to take care with it.
I love being in my cage, but my goddess specifically didn’t want to consider herself the keyholder.
That’s a significantly more intense step up than either of us want at present (I’ll now that we’ve been in a dynamic for over a year, but have only relatively recently added sissy exploration to our bdsm/service foundation whilst I’ve been exploring my own gender identity).
We have found a suitable compromise of me being the deciding factor of when I’m exploring being locked up, but when I do so I give her the key so I don’t know where it is and that I have to ask her for it.
It’s definitely a happy middle ground for us with both of us enjoying my chastity, and the little something of sissy approaching their goddess and asking for the key to unlock.
Being in chastity is fun, though it’s important to communicate well and to take care with it.
I love being in my cage, but my goddess specifically didn’t want to consider herself the keyholder.
That’s a significantly more intense step up than either of us want at present (I’ll now that we’ve been in a dynamic for over a year, but have only relatively recently added sissy exploration to our bdsm/service foundation whilst I’ve been exploring my own gender identity).
We have found a suitable compromise of me being the deciding factor of when I’m exploring being locked up, but when I do so I give her the key so I don’t know where it is and that I have to ask her for it.
It’s definitely a happy middle ground for us with both of us enjoying my chastity, and the little something of sissy approaching their goddess and asking for the key to unlock.