• WalrusDragonOnABike [they/them]
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        41 month ago

        This isn’t a transfem community, nor a transfem enby-excluding community, afaik. There is a transfem community on Lemmy, but it’s explicitly inclusive of enbies, so still not just a women’s space.

        • wizzwizz4
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          41 month ago

          And it’s connected to the whole rest of the Fediverse, which is certainly not a women-only space. Things you post here will be seen outside the context of this magazine.

          • WalrusDragonOnABike [they/them]
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            31 month ago

            Enby is an umbrella term that can includes people who are transmasc (ie: demiboys, libramascs), transfems (ie: demigirls, librafems), multigender, agender, genderfluid, and xenogenders. Transfem just describes the direction of transition and is not just limited to binary trans women.

            • CheesyCheese1 [She/her]OP
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              11 month ago

              That doesn’t make sense, a person cannot want to be “NonBinary” and also want to be a trans woman at the same time.

                • CheesyCheese1 [She/her]OP
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                  11 month ago

                  because nonbinary is being neither male nor female and transfem is being a woman, a binary gender. They are not the same thing.

                  • wizzwizz4
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                    1 month ago

                    Your definitions are overly simplistic. There are bigender people who are male and female and are still non-binary.

                  • WalrusDragonOnABike [they/them]
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                    21 month ago

                    Fem and woman aren’t synonyms. How else would you describe someone who was AMAB but is librafem, isn’t a woman and even further from being a man, but still has a connection to femininity?

                    Lots of transfem people are women, but its sorta like a rectangle and square (all squares are rectangles, but only some rectangles are squares). Practically all trans woman are transfem, but not all transfem people are women.

          • fracture [he/him]
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            51 month ago

            the way you’re trying to exclude trans men from a general trans space “because most of the memes are trans fem” is really othering and hurtful

            i don’t feel like that reason makes it okay to be exclusive to trans men. if anything, that strikes me as a reason to be more considerate, not less

            sort of like how a typical women’s space should be considerate in including trans women, since they’re a minority of a marginalized group, no?

            incidentally, you should see that the rules of the subreddit which forbid bigotry and encourage tagging your post with the audience it’s aimed at