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minus-square@[email protected]linkfedilinkEnglish4•1 month agoThank you! For some reason my brain didn’t make the connection between the slag of “bussy” and “boy pussy”. Dunno why she would be upset by it in an open relationship, but okay.
minus-square@[email protected]linkfedilink9•1 month agoI mean, if I was getting fucked by someone and they were actively fantasizing about me being someone else, I would be upset, open relationship or no
minus-square@[email protected]linkfedilink8•1 month agoThey missed this, but she’s upset because he’s imagining her as a man
minus-square@[email protected]linkfedilinkEnglish1•1 month agoUnless that’s a surprise (that he likes men), I’m not sure how much of a problem that would really be. But far be it for me to tell anyone what should and shouldn’t upset them.
minus-square@[email protected]linkfedilink4•1 month agoEven if he likes men, and she knew, being told that you’re thought of as the gender you’re not isn’t something most people want. Calling a girl a dude when they identify as a girl isn’t exactly flattering.
minus-square@[email protected]linkfedilinkEnglish1•1 month agoThat’s fair enough. I don’t personally let such things bother me, but I’m strange.
minus-square@[email protected]linkfedilinkEnglish2•1 month agoI always thought Bussy was a portmanteau of Butthole and Pussy. Because I’ve definitely heard people use it in context where I can’t imagine they were talking about a “boy pussy”
minus-square@[email protected]linkfedilink3•1 month agoButt-pussy, boy-pussy, same thing isn’t it? The etymology is slightly different but it has the same meaning, a butthole.
Thank you! For some reason my brain didn’t make the connection between the slag of “bussy” and “boy pussy”.
Dunno why she would be upset by it in an open relationship, but okay.
I mean, if I was getting fucked by someone and they were actively fantasizing about me being someone else, I would be upset, open relationship or no
They missed this, but she’s upset because he’s imagining her as a man
Unless that’s a surprise (that he likes men), I’m not sure how much of a problem that would really be.
But far be it for me to tell anyone what should and shouldn’t upset them.
Even if he likes men, and she knew, being told that you’re thought of as the gender you’re not isn’t something most people want. Calling a girl a dude when they identify as a girl isn’t exactly flattering.
That’s fair enough. I don’t personally let such things bother me, but I’m strange.
I always thought Bussy was a portmanteau of Butthole and Pussy.
Because I’ve definitely heard people use it in context where I can’t imagine they were talking about a “boy pussy”
Butt-pussy, boy-pussy, same thing isn’t it? The etymology is slightly different but it has the same meaning, a butthole.