One of the admins at lemmy.blahaj.zone asked us to purge a community and all of its users because they thought it was full of child sexual abuse material, aka CSAM, fka kiddy porn. We assured them that we had checked this comm thoroughly and we were satisfied that all of the models on it were of age.

The admin then demanded we purge the comm because they mistook it for CSAM, and claimed that the entire point of the community was to make people think it was CSAM. We vehemently disagreed that that was in fact the point of the community, but they decided to defederate from us anyway. That is of course their choice, but we will not purge our communities or users because someone else makes a mistake of fact, and then lays the responsibility for their mistake at our feet.

If someone made a community intended to fool people into thinking it was kiddy porn, that would be a real problem. If someone of age goes online and pretends – not roleplays, but pretends with intent to deceive – to be a child and makes porn, that is a real problem. Nobody here is doing that.

One of the reasons we run our instance the way that we do is that we want it to be inclusive. We don’t body shame, and we believe that all adults have a right to sexual expression. That means no adult on our instance is too thin, fat, bald, masculine, old, young, cis, gay, etc., to be sexy, and that includes adults that look younger than some people think they should. Everyone has a right to lust and to be lusted after. There’s no way to draw a line that says “you can’t like adult people that look like X” without crossing a line that we will not cross.

EDIT: OK, closing this post to new comments. Everything that needs saying has been said. Link to my convo with the blahaj admin here.

    • @[email protected]
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      1 year ago

      That’s valid, but Ada didn’t mention anything about the legalese, and specifically said it’s not about the technicalities and more about her personal beliefs

      It’s also quite weird that she was making this statement about that completely innocent comm

      The clear intent is to appeal to people looking for underage porn

      when it might’ve otherwise been valid for fauxbait; that’s an actually concerning comm, though the pics there are clearly watermarked with and taken from well known adult sites at least.

        • @Alixxxaneveah
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          121 year ago

          Correct. The president’s specialty was biology, and the authors of the report are in the internet observatory department.

          • Arobanyan
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            61 year ago

            He oversaw the internet observatory

            it very much is relevant, also one of the authors is David Thiel, the POS who turned facebook into a conservative hellhole

        • Arobanyan
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          41 year ago

          It means I’d question anything Stanford does for awhile and take it with a grain of salt, the report itself is also deeply flawed.