I’m older and experienced, and the first dozen guys I did (before first LTR) were so similar erect that I thought ALL guys were the same size hard, no matter how they looked soft.
Fast forward to the breakup - since then I’ve seen way more variety, swinger guys skew a little above average, and both my interim lover and now husband really were into seeing me take big hung guys, had to jump out of the lifestyle and thankfully husband is my ideal fit, now that I’ve had the different experiences and know enough to know.
Nobody has really shocked me size wise once I understood there were actually different sizes. Most really big guys I’ve seen in real life seem to have that down curve, which kinda makes sense.
Length, yes. I don’t like when guys are so long that you have to be careful, don’t like careful sex. Too long and there is too much cervix banging.
Too thick? Not in the moment, no, there hasn’t been anyone I couldn’t enjoy once it got going. And I’m enough of a sexual masochist that if it hurts at first it turns me on, so it always worked out. But plenty I wouldn’t have dated or been regular with, because I needed recovery time and I’m an everyday lady.
I’m older and experienced, and the first dozen guys I did (before first LTR) were so similar erect that I thought ALL guys were the same size hard, no matter how they looked soft.
Fast forward to the breakup - since then I’ve seen way more variety, swinger guys skew a little above average, and both my interim lover and now husband really were into seeing me take big hung guys, had to jump out of the lifestyle and thankfully husband is my ideal fit, now that I’ve had the different experiences and know enough to know.
Nobody has really shocked me size wise once I understood there were actually different sizes. Most really big guys I’ve seen in real life seem to have that down curve, which kinda makes sense.
really were into seeing me take big hung guys
Were any of the larger ones actually uncomfortable?
Length, yes. I don’t like when guys are so long that you have to be careful, don’t like careful sex. Too long and there is too much cervix banging.
Too thick? Not in the moment, no, there hasn’t been anyone I couldn’t enjoy once it got going. And I’m enough of a sexual masochist that if it hurts at first it turns me on, so it always worked out. But plenty I wouldn’t have dated or been regular with, because I needed recovery time and I’m an everyday lady.