• RandomStickman
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    2094 months ago

    Well, I’ve never seen Mara Wilson and Daniel Radcliffe in the same room together…

    • @[email protected]
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      164 months ago

      I still contend that Marjorie Taylor Greene is just Dog the Bounty Hunter in drag. I mean, has anyone seen the two of them in the same place at the same time?

  • MudMan
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    Man, I say this a lot and I know it comes across standoffish, but… US ethnic categorizations seem bonkers to me.

    What does “half Jewish half Irish” even mean? Isn’t that a Jewish person from Ireland? That would count as fully both things. What are the other two halves?

    This is why I have to think about the immigration form for ten minutes each time I get through customs in the US, it’s all “was any of your grandparents a smurf?” and “are you latino and/or lactose intolerant?” and stuff like that. It makes no sense.

    • Undearius
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      What does “half Jewish half Irish” even mean?

      One parent is Irish and the other is Jewish.

      • MudMan
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        So what are the religion and nationality of the other parents and why don’t they count?

      • @[email protected]
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        104 months ago

        You can be raised by one Jewish parent and one Other parent and still not be a follower of Judaism. You might still have a Jewish cultural heritage and place in the world despite differing theological views.

            • @[email protected]
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              This comes from the religious law. I don’t think it has anything to do with chromosomes. There are still families that traditionally believe that though, despite not being religious. I haven’t met many people who identify as Jewish or partially Jewish due to their father being Jewish though.

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      People can be ethnically Jewish or religiously Jewish and they are separate identities. Historically, religiously jewish people tended to only marry other religiously jewish people, leading to the formation of a jewish ethnicity over time. For many, these identities are closely intertwined, for others they have both but view them separately. And for many others still, they only fit into one category or the other.

      Irish, in contrast, is only an ethnicity but not a religion. (Unless you count certain sects of Celtic Paganism, but that’s usually not what people mean)

      If one parent is predominantly of Jewish heritage and the other of Irish heritage, then their child might identify as half-jewish-half-irish.

      Genetically speaking, they are likely less than 50% of each because that would imply that each parent was completely and totally 100% their respective ethnicity genetically, which is (if possible) very very unlikely and realistically not 100% strictly defined.

      People like to categorize things, including categories. For some, a part of their identity is based on the ethnic categories they fit themselves into, and some group these categories under one subsection of their identity, and assign weights to the different components of that category.

      I love the funny things our pattern seeking brains do in order to quantify the unquantifiable and to better establish a sense of belonging and self in this amorphous and crazy society we’re all a part of. What’s really great is that none of what I’ve said is even universally true. It’s just (from my observation) the most common way I’ve seen all these categories combined. If you disagree, you’re completely free to do so, and neither of us are wrong until we start using numbers and statistics in our argument

      • Dyskolos
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        74 months ago

        Wonderfully put, kind internet-stranger-sir. I have done the same observations and conclusions. Now we both can add a +1 on the drawer “this specific observation might be objective reality”. And due to the +1 the unquantifiable became a tiny bit more quantifiable. Even though there is no clear numerical target. Which also makes it totally useless to add a +1 😊

    • @[email protected]
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      144 months ago

      I think the confusing part is that Jewish is considered by most people to be both a religion and an ethnicity.

      • @[email protected]
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        44 months ago

        Yeah I’m still not sure about that.

        I think it’s an ethnic group with a religion and sometimes a non ethnic person join them?

        • @[email protected]
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          It’s an ethnic group and a religion. The vast majority of the religious group is from the ethnic group because they usually don’t try to convert people. Her note about being secular indicates she is part of the ethnic group but not part of the relegious group.

          • @Tacos_y_margaritas
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            44 months ago

            Can confirm. I am half Jewish, Secular, and coincidentally have a pretty serious nickel allergy.

    • @[email protected]
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      104 months ago

      How difficult is this concept?

      Mother from Ireland Father from Israel, ethnically Jewish

      50/50 ignoring realistic genetic history.

  • @[email protected]
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    Harry Potter probably took inspiration from Matilda, which is why this works so well.

    • @[email protected]
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      Radcliff probably took his inspiration from Harry Potter, since it was a global sensation at the time and literally every kid read them.

      Except me. I thought I was too old, and thus too cool, to be reading Harry Potter. So I didn’t read it till I was like 23, and significantly less cool.

      • Zeppo
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        14 months ago

        I never read them as they were after my time too. But when I was 25 I was driving through the middle of nowhere in Oregon and saw a book in the road. Turned around, stopped and picked it up, and it was the first Harry Potter. I read it. It was okay.

        • @[email protected]
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          We’ve been putting the audiobooks on for car rides with the kids. It’s been good for that. And I’m using a friend’s audible account and she bought them long before we all knew JK was a cunt.

          My Kindle has copies that I found on the high seas though.

          Mostly slash fiction.

          Featuring Dobby.

  • @[email protected]
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    374 months ago

    As a fellow person with partial Irish ancestry and a nickel allergy, do I have… magic powers?

  • @[email protected]
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    264 months ago

    Matilda is a gem of a movie, as is the remake of Miracle on 34th Street, which Mara also starred in.

    • NielsBohron
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      104 months ago

      Any version of Miracle on 34th Street is gonna be a no from me, dawg. Love the actor, but that dumpster fire of a plot needs to be relegated to the dustbin of history.

    • @[email protected]
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      It’s a contact allergy, so mostly it just makes you break out in a rash if you wear jewelry or work with tools that have been plated in nickel. It takes time before you break out, although people instantly falling over after getting a handful of change would be hilarious to see.

      • @[email protected]
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        84 months ago

        Yeah my Mum has it and has to have her shirt tucked in her pants as the buttons often contain nickel.
        Like you say she gets a red round rash if she forgets.

        • @[email protected]
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          Yeah my Mum has it and has to have her shirt tucked in her pants as the buttons often contain nickel.

          Ugh, same, but there’s a trick - Clear fingernail polish! It will eventually rub away, but it’s worth it so you don’t have to worry in the meantime.

    • @[email protected]
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      44 months ago

      Yes, but in all seriousness my mom can’t where watches because she breaks out with red welts where the watch back and even the clap touch her skin…

    • @[email protected]
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      It itches and causes a rash that gets worse with prolonged exposure. I can’t even tolerate surgical steel and many gold “hypoallergenic” pieces because those bitches still use nickel as part of the alloy.

      It’s in all sorts of things. Buttons on jeans, zippers, tools, wire, eyeglasses, and obviously jewelry.

      It takes an hour or two of direct contact to start itching and getting raised bumps, less time if it is low quality metal like uncoated wire or something. Prolonged contact greater than a few hours leads to sores and it gets really really itchy and gross from there on out. Stupid jeans.

      How people deal with it is just avoid metal things as much as possible because you never know if nickel is mixed in. For metal jewelry you can pay a pretty penny for higher purity metals with a much lower concentration of nickel (hard to be completely nickel free due to natural impurities) or just wear silicone/resin/leather jewelry.

      Jeans though…those buttons are gonna get you. Most people paint the inside button with nail polish but that shit rubs off quickly. I just make sure I’m wearing at least 2 layers of barrier fabric between my skin and the jeans (1 layer can be pretty permeable).

  • @[email protected]
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    94 months ago

    “But we’re in the middle of Charlotteth Web!”

    (Yeah, different movie, but that’s what goes through my mind when I see her. Thanks for the memories, Mara!)

    • @[email protected]
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      254 months ago

      Jewish is an ethnicity as well. and she specifically says she’s secular, so it’s definitely not her religion.

        • @[email protected]
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          134 months ago

          no. you do realize that is not a logical followup.

          —i ate a banana and an orange
          —it’s weird that you said you ate a fruit and a color
          —orange is a fruit as well
          —is purple a fruit???

          • @[email protected]
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            64 months ago

            That’s a really nice analogy you just made, it’s easy to comprehend and correct. I started my point wrong and then slid into bad faith. I’m too lazy to try and clarify what I initially meant/intended, so I’ll gladly take this opportunity to end it. Thank you.

      • @Gimpydude
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        74 months ago

        I would say that both are ethnicities since we’re all members of the human race.

  • 1ostA5tro6yne
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    54 months ago

    hint for the identity police: it has to do with generations of historical discrimination and otherness. sorry our culture isn’t yours.