I’m shamelessly stealing that person idea, because I think it’s an interesting question.

Personally I’m into porn involving some forms of abuse, often it’s rape but it could also be just spanking or gaslight. Of course I’m not into that in real life. I know CNC is a thing, same with consensual SM and I could be into trying those one day, but I don’t see myself doing that with my husband anytime soon, and it’s different when it’s planned in advance, which is not always the case in the story presented in porn.

  • @loopedcandle
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    343 months ago

    Any situation with more than 2 people. I love the idea of groups or swinging, but IRL I am a very awkward human - couldn’t do it even if presented with the opportunity. And I have no interest in anyone besides my partner.

    I’ll leave that one to fantasy-land.

  • Shimitar
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    273 months ago

    In porn i always look for 20-something looking girls, but IRL I always found myself physically attracted girls (women) of my age bracket… So definitely older.

    • @ButPosh3OP
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      173 months ago

      Porn makes the look more interesting than personality, and in real life I think it’s the opposite. I definitely sometimes enjoy porn with 20 something guys too, but I don’t see myself going out with them, even if I was single.

      • Shimitar
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        43 months ago

        Agreed, in porn its only the looks, IRL its so much more than that.

      • @Sharkcatfish
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        43 months ago

        Yeah but like it’s not only that. I find myself more attracted to women my age irl just by their looks too.

    • @Bob71
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      13 months ago

      I follow alot of hot Instagram models. They are amazing to look at. But if you ever attend a rare IG Live they do, they are some of the most vacuous, money minded people I’ve ever encountered.

      One girl literally had the “cash me outside” girls schtick. I couldn’t help myself and sent a message saying it’s a good thing she’s pretty, then left.

  • @dugmeup
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    243 months ago

    99% of it . … I want to have a great time and want my partner to have a great time. I also don’t want to bang relatives or plumbers or realtors or any myriad of professionals. So yeah porn stays in the land of fantasy and I can be inspired but mostly leave it there

    • Skeezix
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      63 months ago

      Anything’s stepsister stuff if you just change the title of the video

    • @ButPosh3OP
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      133 months ago

      Thank you for your insight!

  • @[email protected]
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    103 months ago

    Large gay, fat round juicy gay male penises and hard gay male cocks.

    I’m a male. I’m not gay irl just in porn land.

    • K.K.
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      133 months ago

      I mean hey, I thought that might be the case for me, but uh… one thing led to another and it turns out sucking a cock in real life is incredibly hot. YMMV though 😅

      • @[email protected]
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        83 months ago

        Same with me. It was a big secret fantasy till I spilled the beans to my wife who encouraged me to try it

        • K.K.
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          63 months ago

          I’m glad it worked out for you!!! My partner is also encouraging. Good reminder to be incredibly thankful we have them in our lives ❤️

          • @[email protected]
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            21 month ago

            I’m honestly not gay, this was a joke comment, but it led to wholesomeness nonetheless. Happy for y’all

            • K.K.
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              21 month ago

              Fair! You sparked a nice discussion ❤️

    • @MassiveCum
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      11 month ago

      I feel like I recall seeing a subreddit a while ago specifically for that.

  • @[email protected]
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    93 months ago

    Big age gap.

    Though as I get older, it’s becoming less of a fantasy and more of a reality. Thought about this a few months back after hooking with a woman who was 20 years my junior. I’ve become that guy and I’m pulling back on it

  • southsamurai
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    73 months ago

    Man, I’ve become rather unfond of porn at all. I’ve gotten to the point that it’s written erotica and fantasy for me. Porn has gotten so ugly so often that it’s all just offputting for me.

    That being said, back when I did use porn, it was anal. It’s one of those things that is very rarely on my list of things to do (for my own pleasure, I’ll do it if a partner wants it), but it uses to be arousing because of the implied openness and trust (which, I know, isn’t the case in porn, but that’s the part that makes me willing to do it irl). It’s the idea of “oh, I’ll share everything with you” that’s interesting about it in porn.

    Irl, I still get turned on by that idea, but anal itself is not anywhere near as enjoyable as vaginal sex. To the contrary, sometimes it’s distinctly unenjoyable for various reasons.

    • @[email protected]
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      53 months ago

      I’ve tried couple on couple. I don’t mind seeing my wife with another guy. But I wouldn’t wanna feel left out.

    • @[email protected]
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      43 months ago

      Instance checks out!

      I wish there was more good furry animation stuff. When my partner and I do things to each other, we put on hentai. But we’re really particular about what hentai we like… it’s insanely tough to find hentai with normal type boobs and not GARGANTUAN BAZONGAS.

      I’d love some cute yiff full vids we could watch, but there’s not a ton of that around.

        • @[email protected]
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          12 months ago

          Thank you! Alas… I am indeed aware of all that. My lament is that there are almost zero 10-30 minute furry/anthro animations that really fit our tastes. There’s some nice short animations, but reeeeeally limited on stuff we can put on in the background while touching each other and stuff.

  • Klnsfw 🏳️‍🌈
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    33 months ago

    Lesbian amateur couple

    It’s hard to find straight porn where woman pleasure is really the goal. When I’m in this mood, it’s easier for me to project myself in lesbian porn

    Irl, why would I care about girls who don’t care about guys ?

  • HotCoupleSD1959
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    22 months ago

    I think it would be like those exagerated athletic movements in porn (mostly in harcore videos). They look good in porn, but in reality they are very tiring or borderline impossible for a common person.

  • @RBWellsV23
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    23 months ago

    Hmm, in written erotica I can enjoy more masochistic stuff than I can enjoy in real life (I do enjoy some but too much will pull me out of the moment) but in videos pretty much enjoy what I do like, or have liked.

    Like Schimitar also said - I do also enjoy younger people in video, they are attractive on screen but not IRL, not even in looks do I find them sexually attractive, only good looking guys close to my age do that for me (though that ‘close to’ bubble is certainly wider than it was, it’s still not very big).