How would you approach persuading a far extreme liberal toward center? What would you set as a realistic goal for a productive discourse? Would it be better attempt to do so in person rather than online?

  • Bear
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    19 hours ago

    Accept them. Understand them and what they say and why. Have fun and tell a joke they’ll like. Let go of trying to change them and let it happen naturally over time.

  • @[email protected]
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    632 days ago

    Might be a good idea to define what you consider an “extreme liberal”. Nowadays, an extreme liberal can often times be used as a label for people advocating for human rights and calling out the bad faith actors while a moderate is someone who says “Hold on, let’s hear out why these people are ethnically cleansing a population. Maybe they make good points”.

    • Scrubbles
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      372 days ago

      In other threads on this platform I’ve been called an “Extreme liberal” for wanting free lunch for schoolchildren. So, I think the title is just kind of applied to “anyone who disagrees with me”

      • @[email protected]
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        182 days ago

        Maybe try advocating for free lunch for white kids only in the future? Makes you seem more reasonable.

        /s

      • @[email protected]
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        Well, that obviously calls for deprogramming. All the commercials this month inform me you are a radical socialist trying to feed children who don’t deserve it. I think the correct answer is to throw them in labor camps instead so they can earn bread and water. Serves them right for being born poor.

    • @[email protected]
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      38 hours ago

      Anyone who isn’t in a cult worshipping one of the most overtly corrupt con men the world has ever seen.

    • @[email protected]
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      342 days ago

      Someone who cares about others. It’s a terrible affliction to go through life like that.

    • @[email protected]
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      142 days ago

      I think privatising social security is a terrible idea and medicare for all is a good idea. So I’m basically a communist.

      /s

  • @[email protected]
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    222 days ago

    deprogram an extreme liberal

    Read Das Kapital to them

    towards center

    They’re already in the “center”

  • @[email protected]
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    232 days ago

    I think giving an example of an extreme liberal would help answer the question. Did you have some public figure in mind? If not, what are some examples of their beliefs that you’re wanting to push them to the center on?

  • SavvyWolf
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    182 days ago

    “Deprogramming” makes sense in the sense for the far right because there is a lot of misinformation and fake news and outrage bait and all that kind of stuff. Getting people out of those trappings is good because it allows them to see how things really are, rather than what people want them to think.

    That isn’t really a problem with the left. I mean, I’m sure you could find some extreme subreddit somewhere where people want to bring out the guillotine to kill all capitalists or cut everyone’s genitals off in the name of gender equality… But ultimately they’re much rarer than the equivalent alt right spaces.

    Extreme conservatives are very common and an existential threat to many groups. Extreme liberals are a mild curiosity that need to go out and touch grass.

    That should hopefully explain the votes, saying that you need to deprogram “extreme liberals” brings up questions about what you actually mean by “extreme liberal” given that it really isn’t that big an issue in society.

    … Or maybe all this is just my biases.

    • @[email protected]
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      62 days ago

      It’s just your biases.

      That isn’t really a problem with the left

      Of course it is. Since the terms left and right were invented (during the French revolution), left-wing extremism has been as much a problem as the right-wing variety. The ideology of equality and fraternity is a story of bloody revolutions, purges, famines, even genocides. Depending on definitions, the body count of left-wingery is arguably even higher than that of fascism.

      Of course, what Americans call an “extreme liberal” (i.e. a woke progressive rather than a liberal) is not typically a murderous Stalinist. But the habit of fetishizing abstract ideas, and seeing everything in terms of group power struggles, and the obsession with ideological purity - I hardly need to cite examples, at least from abroad we can see that these things are alive and well in America and having bad outcomes.

      Not as bad as the opposite extreme though, on that I will agree.

        • @[email protected]
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          92 days ago

          Of course not. An extreme liberal would be a neoliberal or ultraliberal, so basically the opposite of Stalin.

          This is just America’s weird misuse of the word liberal to mean “progressive” or “socialist” or something.

          • ℕ𝕖𝕞𝕠
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            62 days ago

            Neoliberals aren’t liberal though, similar to how neoconservatives aren’t conservative; neoliberalism is an explicitly postliberal ideology that rejects the tenets of Enlightenment liberalism.

            • @[email protected]
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              62 days ago

              Arguably true. But personally I prefer it when words mean something over time. The fundamental concept in liberalism, since the beginning, is a concern for individual rights. That was the revolutionary idea. Looked at this way, the word ultraliberal means exactly what it looks like: an obsession with individual rights taken too far.

              The neoliberal etymology is murkier because it’s really an economic term.

              In any case the vernacular American usage is of liberal to mean “left-wing” is just wrong, or at least unhelpful. I wish you guys would drop it and find a more appropriate word! Progressive being the obvious candidate.

  • @[email protected]
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    162 days ago

    OP asked the same question about extreme conservatives yesterday but it’s not the same question, and doesn’t have the same answers. Much of the right has gone further right, then looks at the left and says “they are farther away than they used to be”

  • @[email protected]
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    152 days ago

    Didn’t you post a somewhat opposite yesterday using “Republican”?

    Those two terms aren’t even close to equivalent in this context.

    You need to define what you mean, a LOT. At least start with equivalent labels.

    • @[email protected]
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      162 days ago

      I bet this is going to be some sort of gotcha about how people didn’t feel the need to “deprogram an extremist liberal”, so obviously everyone is out to get the poor poor conservatives who just want to be vile in peace

    • @[email protected]
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      The title may be edited, idk, but the other post you’re referring to says “conservative” today

      Edit:Looking at the profile, the wording of both posts are identical, except “conservative” is swapped for “liberal”

  • @[email protected]
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    152 days ago

    Firstly, I would say, hey, I respect that you don’t think people should die hungry in the streets. Yup, that’s about it.

    • Scrubbles
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      142 days ago

      Hey I notice you have empathy for others. What can we do to get rid of that?

      • @[email protected]
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        62 days ago

        I’m curious as to why someone would want to “deprogram” progresivism. Seems like it would be for the worse.

      • Rhynoplaz
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        52 days ago

        Haven’t you heard about how the immigrants are shutting down the labor unions and making it rain when you have plans?!?

  • @[email protected]
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    Wow I did not interpret the term “liberal” at all in the same way that you have. Liberalism as an ideology is centrist at best, right of center at worst if you consider the overton window in developed nations other than the US.

  • @[email protected]
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    72 days ago

    Interesting to contrast the votes on this with the other thread about conservatives.

    No problem with extremists as long as they’re our extremists.

    • Rhynoplaz
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      242 days ago

      I have yet to meet an extreme liberal that wanted to declare one of my children inferior to other humans.

      I can’t say the same about conservatives.

      I think most parents will agree that they are looking out for their kids first, and until your platform respects all of my children like they were your own, it gets NO support from me.

      • @[email protected]
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        41 day ago

        Did we fail the test because we’re wrong, or was the answer sheet wrong? Maybe we say conservatives are bad not because of some hidden bias but because conservatives are bad.

    • @[email protected]
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      222 days ago

      Far left extremism - ending homelessness by taking money from the rich

      Far right extremism - invading a capitol building to block vote counts

      • @[email protected]
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        92 days ago

        Far right extremism - ending homelessness by throwing them in jail and forcing them to work for the rich at below minimum wage

      • Rikudou_Sage
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        22 days ago

        Far left extremism - silencing all opposition, one party, everyone is equal (except those who are more equal of course), corruption, executions, burning of books, and much more.

        If it sounds very similar to right wing extremism, congrats, you’ve discovered a cool fact: all extremism is bad.

        If you think I’m pulling it out of my ass, those things happened in my country when we were under Soviet communist occupation. Also extreme poverty, never seen before or after their occupation.

        • @[email protected]
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          192 days ago

          Great, but that’s not what republicans mean when they say “extremist liberal.” Instead they have coopted the term “extremist” so it no longer means anything, except what they want it to, when they want it to.

          That’s what extremists do, gaslight, obstruct and project. It’s all 101 level stuff.

          • Rikudou_Sage
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            12 days ago

            I’m not disagreeing with you, I just really hate when people who know extreme left just from the internet claim how awesome it is. It’s not, there’s really few differences between extreme left and extreme right.

        • @[email protected]
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          152 days ago

          you’re describing authoritarianism, not leftism. We want to feed the hungry, care for the poor/sick/elderly, and give every person the opportunity to live happily with dignity. None of that has anything to do with your strawman.

          • Rikudou_Sage
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            12 days ago

            Did you miss like half of the premise? Or the keyword extreme?

            Your strawman can be broken down very easily when you leave out half the original points.

        • Rhynoplaz
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          92 days ago

          Is that actually far left extremism, or just fascism with a misleading name tag?

          • Rikudou_Sage
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            Far left extremism. Soviets wanted to create utopia where everyone is equal, except the leaders of course. That’s not gonna change. And then it cascades into straight up dictatorship.

                • Rhynoplaz
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                  423 hours ago

                  If someone hands you a bowl of shit and tells you it’s chocolate pudding, that doesn’t make actual chocolate pudding shitty.

                  But, I can definitely understand being skeptical of chocolate pudding after eating a bowl of shit.

                  At the very least I guess we can both agree that we need to check our pudding for pieces of shit before we dive right in.

            • @[email protected]
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              32 days ago

              That’s not far left. “Everyone is equal” is left-wing, but adding “except the leaders” is right-wing. It’s not that the far left is like the right, but that those claiming to be far left and doing right wing stuff aren’t as far left as they say they are.

              But when they say they’re left-wing, I’m sure you’ll trust the soviet leadership. Why would they have a reason to lie?

        • Tar_Alcaran
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          62 days ago

          one party

          A well known issue with the left is that leftwing parties tend to split into a million different fractions.

          corruption

          Pretty sure a key feature of left-wing policy is transparency and removal of money in politics. Contrast to, for example, the recent US (right wing) supreme court ruling that bribery is totally legal as long as you do it beforehand.

          executions

          Unless this is your dog whistle for freedom to have an abortion, you’re just Imaging this. The death penalty is very much opposed by every left wing group or person.

          burning of books,

          Maybe, maybe at the far end, republishing books with disclaimers about the period they were written in…

          those things happened in my country when we were under Soviet communist occupation.

          And do you think the Soviet Union under Stalin was very leftwing? Or were they just extremely authoritarian? Did they practice much egalitarianism, or did they merely say they did? We’re they anti-war? Pro multiculturalism?

          • Rikudou_Sage
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            12 days ago

            Another internet warrior making stuff up. Everything I said happened in my country and happens in every communist country. Your “No True Scotsman” is boring and uninspiring.

    • ℕ𝕖𝕞𝕠
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      42 days ago

      Except the “other side” from conservatism would usually be progressivism. Maybe this is my US bias showing, but all mainline political thought is based on liberalism here: it’s the nonliberals who are the extremists, whether they’re progressive or regressive in their authoritarianism.