I’ve started experimenting with this side of myself but I’m wondering how yall built up your leg strength to endure it? Like I’m trying so hard in multiple positions but I just can’t hold my legs up for very long.

Also is it normal to feel it in your taint when doing the spicy? I’ve never really felt anything there from the toys but now that I’ve technically got a bf and we are both verse, apparently the real thing gives me that weird pressure down there. I’m not even sure how to explain it to him or anyone else tbh…

  • chloespankedEnglish
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    2 years ago

    For the first part, and in the near term, I think you might want to switch positions from ones that demand a lot of leg strength (e.g, squatting, cowgirl/boy) to ones that don’t (e.g., doggy, lying down) when you get tired. Longer term, you’re probably looking for exercise to gain more endurance. Exercises that mimic the actions you want to perform in bed might be best, or generally just work your core and lower body.

    I’m less sure about the second part. For me, getting fucked in my ass, causes some pretty widespread pleasure - very much in contrast to penile stimulation with is very much concentrated on that one body part. The difference in ‘spread’ may be partially due to my lesser experience with anal stimulation. Maybe when I’m used to coming from anal stimulation, the pleasure will feel a little more well-defined and concentrated. But I think that pleasure is typically more diffuse than penile stimulation

    • kiranraine@reddthat.comOPEnglish
      2·
      2 years ago

      Longer term, you’re probably looking for exercise to gain more endurance. Exercises that mimic the actions you want to perform in bed might be best, or generally just work your core and lower body.

      I kinda figured, but I’m never sure on exercises esp since I would love to go swimming at the very least at the Y(once I get a membership somehow). I keep thinking on fdroid I’ll find an app for generally making a home workout schedule since all the galaxy or play store apps are paid subscriptions I can’t justify w/other shiz going on.

      causes some pretty widespread pleasure

      That’s me too, but I’m not sure if it’s the angle or what(since I think we usually end up in missionary for the most part at least when I’m the bottom). Doesn’t help I have no clue how to word things I wanna try, or they aren’t quite possible w/angling for him. Since I’ve wanted to try being on my side and him just holding one leg up, but I’m also too much of a people pleaser and I think he is too so we end up getting stuck trying to figure out what the other wants to do…

      Seems a lot of it is just me being inexperienced and since struggling to figure out things to do or at least how to explain it to him. Then again yea I guess it’s just more toy play by myself probably then too?