I’ve started experimenting with this side of myself but I’m wondering how yall built up your leg strength to endure it? Like I’m trying so hard in multiple positions but I just can’t hold my legs up for very long.

Also is it normal to feel it in your taint when doing the spicy? I’ve never really felt anything there from the toys but now that I’ve technically got a bf and we are both verse, apparently the real thing gives me that weird pressure down there. I’m not even sure how to explain it to him or anyone else tbh…

  • kiranraine@reddthat.comOPEnglish
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    2 years ago

    Longer term, you’re probably looking for exercise to gain more endurance. Exercises that mimic the actions you want to perform in bed might be best, or generally just work your core and lower body.

    I kinda figured, but I’m never sure on exercises esp since I would love to go swimming at the very least at the Y(once I get a membership somehow). I keep thinking on fdroid I’ll find an app for generally making a home workout schedule since all the galaxy or play store apps are paid subscriptions I can’t justify w/other shiz going on.

    causes some pretty widespread pleasure

    That’s me too, but I’m not sure if it’s the angle or what(since I think we usually end up in missionary for the most part at least when I’m the bottom). Doesn’t help I have no clue how to word things I wanna try, or they aren’t quite possible w/angling for him. Since I’ve wanted to try being on my side and him just holding one leg up, but I’m also too much of a people pleaser and I think he is too so we end up getting stuck trying to figure out what the other wants to do…

    Seems a lot of it is just me being inexperienced and since struggling to figure out things to do or at least how to explain it to him. Then again yea I guess it’s just more toy play by myself probably then too?