I know the question was directed towards women, but, as a guy, a handjob would take longer than quickie sex, women just usually don’t know what they’re doing. It’s the same way it probably wouldn’t be helpful for a guy to try to rub a woman’s pussy to get her off, we just don’t know what feels good for you as much as you know your own body. You may as well just ask me to jerk myself off while you rub my balls than try a “quick” handjob, unless you’re an expert at it. May depend on the guy though, mileage may vary.

If I’m also horny then yes sometimes but he better also finger me, I’d rather a quickie fuck though. If I’m not horny then no, I don’t mind if he jacks off though.

Sort of the opposite. I have finished him that way when it’s gone on long enough I’m sure I am not going to cum anymore, but otherwise no, if short on time would rather do something we both get something out of. So our quickies are PIV - occasionally I don’t get off if it is really quick but in that case (since it doesn’t happen often) the frustration usually makes the next time better.

Kind of opposite. My girlfriend would give me a hand job because she wasn’t horny when I was. Then suddenly ask me to finish doggy style. I assumed she got horny enough.

After a couple of times I told her that she feels different inside when this happens.

Then she told me that it’s not that she gets horny, it’s just that her arm gets tired. I then had to tell her I’d rather just stop, than fuck her when she’s not horny.

Is wanking off your partner really faster than fucking? Or is this question about the ordeal piv sex puts on the woman? Genuinely curious.