I was born in July 2006. My baby brother will be born in March 2025. So we’ll be almost 19 years apart. Full-siblings. I live with my parents.

      • @RedditRefugee69
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        62 days ago

        Does it technically count as not trying if you’re pumping fat loads into someone who isn’t on birth control? Sounds like trying to me, honestly.

        • @[email protected]OP
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          143 days ago

          I was very surprised at first and a bit weirded out to be completely honest. But now I’m happy and excited. I became even closer with my mom during this time. I take extra good care of mom and dad is taking extra good care of both of us. ~~

          • @[email protected]
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            83 days ago

            Well hey, you’ll get some great experience with babies, which future partners will LOVE. Sounds like you’ve got a lovely family, I think you’ll find a lot of joy from him :) babies really are a treasure, you’ll be surprised how quickly you fall in love.

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    103 days ago

    No offense in any way, but just curious on the age of your parents.

    Great for them though. Wish them the best.

  • @[email protected]
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    62 days ago

    My brother and I were 20 years apart. He was in the military, stationed overseas, when I was born and didn’t come home until I was 4 years old. He had his own apartment and came over for dinner on the weekends. I was a confused kid for the first couple of months. Who’s this guy eating with us every weekend? My brother? What?

    We didn’t have any sort of relationship until I was in my 30s. I was shy and introverted child and he didn’t make much of an effort to interact with me. We eventually bonded over chats about raising children (his children are about 20 years older than mine) and investing.

    Unfortunately, he passed away a few years ago. RIP, bro. It took awhile, but we got to be good friends in the end.